Cannot get into Xmas stuff with all this going on.
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Hiya.
I am seeing Xmas stuff everywhere in shops , houses etc.
With my hubby on RUI and nearly 6 months in I just cannot get into the Xmas swing of things.
I know with timeframes it's gonna be after Xmas but cannot get into it.
Xx
I am seeing Xmas stuff everywhere in shops , houses etc.
With my hubby on RUI and nearly 6 months in I just cannot get into the Xmas swing of things.
I know with timeframes it's gonna be after Xmas but cannot get into it.
Xx
I feel the same Hun although hasn't been as long for me. Husbands bail extension runs out 2nd December. Just thinking of Christmas makes me sad as it won't be the same for my kids if dads not there to wake them up in the morning. X
Hiya hun.
That's sad to think about your kids nothing being with there dad on Xmas.
We havnt got any kids just us 2.
And we worked out timeframes so should be over Xmas now.
Take care xx
That's sad to think about your kids nothing being with there dad on Xmas.
We havnt got any kids just us 2.
And we worked out timeframes so should be over Xmas now.
Take care xx
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Blimey Smile.
That must be horrendous just having a phone call at Christmas.
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That must be horrendous just having a phone call at Christmas.
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Unfortunately we have a few more to go through, yes not easy!
I feel exactly the same, this will be the first Xmas without my hubbie and I really don't want to think about it. I could quite easily just stay in bed all day and not open the door to anyone, but I have my 2 grown up daughters to think about. Next year will be different though because he's due to be released the week before Xmas.
Omg girls that's shocking.
Cannot stop crying thinking about you both x
Cannot stop crying thinking about you both x
Chelsea 1 - my only advice would be to make it a good Christmas. We expected a suspended sentence and he got custodial........ Make some flippin good memories while you can my love xxx I'm thinking of you and hope you get a good result xxx
I am dreading Christmas too ladies. I am trying to get into the Christmas and have bought lots of our children's presents. Hubby is at home only for the sake of the children. My heart is broken and our relationship is over. He is released under investigation, 10months in.
I am petrified that in the weeks leading up to Christmas the police will be finished with his phone and charges brought and social services brought in to ruin Christmas.
I have no idea how I will explain to family and the children where he is.
I just want to get Christmas with my children ????but I feel like the justice system won't care that it's Christmas
I am petrified that in the weeks leading up to Christmas the police will be finished with his phone and charges brought and social services brought in to ruin Christmas.
I have no idea how I will explain to family and the children where he is.
I just want to get Christmas with my children ????but I feel like the justice system won't care that it's Christmas
Thabk you ladies.
If it wasn't for the lovely people in this group would have thrown Xmas out the window.
Gonna try and make it a good Xmas.
Thank you xx
If it wasn't for the lovely people in this group would have thrown Xmas out the window.
Gonna try and make it a good Xmas.
Thank you xx
I feel the same. Only 1 week since the knock, still unknown if/what charges. Usually love Xmas, Primary aged son trying to be positive for him and will have brave face on, but he will be devastated if no Dad there Xmas eve/morning not allowed to stop over
We are making this Christmas count. It's my daughters first Christmas and at only 3 months old is really doesn't care abaout anything other than the pretty lights. But we are here. We are healthy. My husband is so much happier than ever and fighting his issues.
And frankly - we don't know if he will be at home with us next year or in prison. So we will make it count this year.
We are doing it all. Santa visits. Matching pjs. Big Christmas tree and all the decorations.
And frankly - we don't know if he will be at home with us next year or in prison. So we will make it count this year.
We are doing it all. Santa visits. Matching pjs. Big Christmas tree and all the decorations.