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I've only got until Friday before my husband is sentenced. Although we are in the process of getting divorced and he's being awful I still don't want him to get a custodial sentence, to my mind these don't help the situation, he would get much more help if he gets a suspended or community order.
My husband has never accepted responsibility for his actions and can't see he's done anything wrong so I'm hoping he'll get put on a course to help him see how wrong it is otherwise the risk of re-offending will be higher I would imagine!!
My boys are coming to the court with me and my friend is coming down from Yorkshire to stay with me for a couple of nights but if course it'll then be the 'you can put this behind you and get on with your life!' How???
I had a call from the local wellbeing support and apparently 'I'm a strange case because I don't fall in any of their categories' - funny that, I think I could have told them that at the start of the conversation! They were very much asking me about suicidal thoughts of which I don't have any thankfully.
It'll be interesting to see what they come up with for me!
Xx
I've only got until Friday before my husband is sentenced. Although we are in the process of getting divorced and he's being awful I still don't want him to get a custodial sentence, to my mind these don't help the situation, he would get much more help if he gets a suspended or community order.
My husband has never accepted responsibility for his actions and can't see he's done anything wrong so I'm hoping he'll get put on a course to help him see how wrong it is otherwise the risk of re-offending will be higher I would imagine!!
My boys are coming to the court with me and my friend is coming down from Yorkshire to stay with me for a couple of nights but if course it'll then be the 'you can put this behind you and get on with your life!' How???
I had a call from the local wellbeing support and apparently 'I'm a strange case because I don't fall in any of their categories' - funny that, I think I could have told them that at the start of the conversation! They were very much asking me about suicidal thoughts of which I don't have any thankfully.
It'll be interesting to see what they come up with for me!
Xx
Tracey,
I hope whatever happens on Friday happens for the best. It’s good you have a friend with you. Know that we are there in spirit.
I completely understand how confusing the situation is. It’s possible to still care for your husband and be frustrated with him all the same. I thjnyit must take so much energy for him to survive up to this point he can’t actually acknowledge the pain he has caused to you and the children in those images.
So yes hope he will have to confront this in the sentencing. I don’t think locking offenders up is an answer And if the arrest 500 plus people on these offences every week there can’t be space to hold them all in prison.
For your sake I hope it’s as stress free as possible and details are not released to the press. I do think once it’s over you won’t be able to get over this overnight and you like many of the people on here will need support so don’t be afraid to touch base.
With love and care Beth lou xxx
I hope whatever happens on Friday happens for the best. It’s good you have a friend with you. Know that we are there in spirit.
I completely understand how confusing the situation is. It’s possible to still care for your husband and be frustrated with him all the same. I thjnyit must take so much energy for him to survive up to this point he can’t actually acknowledge the pain he has caused to you and the children in those images.
So yes hope he will have to confront this in the sentencing. I don’t think locking offenders up is an answer And if the arrest 500 plus people on these offences every week there can’t be space to hold them all in prison.
For your sake I hope it’s as stress free as possible and details are not released to the press. I do think once it’s over you won’t be able to get over this overnight and you like many of the people on here will need support so don’t be afraid to touch base.
With love and care Beth lou xxx
Hi
hope it goes ok for you all on Friday. Did he plead guilty?
still in the midst of our nightmare - know this will be me posting something about court one day, which feels all a bit surreal x
hope it goes ok for you all on Friday. Did he plead guilty?
still in the midst of our nightmare - know this will be me posting something about court one day, which feels all a bit surreal x
Hi Big sigh
Yes he did go guilty in the end but is still protesting his innocence saying that he didn't do it, it just turned up on his laptop, first time a laptop has been mentioned as it was a SD card!
It's just so tiring and stressful, I think I could do with just going away and forgetting everything as I'm sure you all feel!!
I hope you don't have too much longer to wait and you Bethlou23, the waiting is awful
Much love xx
Yes he did go guilty in the end but is still protesting his innocence saying that he didn't do it, it just turned up on his laptop, first time a laptop has been mentioned as it was a SD card!
It's just so tiring and stressful, I think I could do with just going away and forgetting everything as I'm sure you all feel!!
I hope you don't have too much longer to wait and you Bethlou23, the waiting is awful
Much love xx