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Upset mum

Member since
June 2020

2503 posts

He has all but given up and is hanging on by a thread

My emotions are all over the place and just feel so helpless

As a mum I just want to keep him safe and I cant

His actions have led to all of this what a total mess he is on remand until sentancing and he just wants to fall asleep and never wake up its breaking me!

Another tearful phone call (mostly my tears)

xx

Posted Wed November 24, 2021 8:08pmReport post

Grace Hush

Member since
August 2021

145 posts

Sending love. It's awful having to watch our children suffer.

He is safe, and he will get through this. So will you.

It's not easy but keep going, try focus on yourself as you cannot pour from an empty glass. Xx

Posted Wed November 24, 2021 8:11pmReport post

Fatso

Member since
November 2019

107 posts

Hang in there upset mum, I was like this when they took my boy away last December,it will be a year neaxt week,I use to phone calls saying more of the same, which would lead me to phone safer custody to make sure he was ok. I just want him home but i have another 3 months to go, and i dont cry so much-just take one day at a time.

Just been invited to a party next week but we will pass as cant image us having a good time whilst my child is locked up.

Posted Wed November 24, 2021 8:17pmReport post

Upset mum

Member since
June 2020

2503 posts

Thank you both so much for your reply's

It's just so hard to hear him broken xx

Posted Wed November 24, 2021 9:02pmReport post

Fatso

Member since
November 2019

107 posts

Are u on mumsnet upset mum.

Posted Wed November 24, 2021 9:35pmReport post

Upset mum

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Posted Wed November 24, 2021 9:38pm
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Smile through tears

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Posted Thu November 25, 2021 4:28am
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Upset mum

Member since
June 2020

2503 posts

Hi Smile

I think it will be years for my son also :-(

I hang on for just the smallest amount of hope but god it's so difficult

xx

Posted Thu November 25, 2021 7:06amReport post

Smile through tears

Member since
September 2021

2749 posts

It is, very very difficult....... with many ups and downs which can change from minute to minute. I know exactly how frightened you are feeling x

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Smile through tears

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September 2021

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Posted Thu November 25, 2021 10:14am
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Lola53

Member since
May 2021

285 posts

Upset Mum, and all other mums on here - I wish we could all have a coffee and a cry and a hug together. Please try to stay strong; look after yourself physically and make some time to do something nice xx

Posted Thu November 25, 2021 12:59pmReport post

Smile through tears

Member since
September 2021

2749 posts

And so say all of us!!!!!

Posted Thu November 25, 2021 1:39pmReport post

Upset mum

Member since
June 2020

2503 posts

Hi Lola

If only we could xx

Posted Thu November 25, 2021 7:01pmReport post

Nonna

Member since
December 2018

85 posts

Hi to all mums,

I would love that too.

Posted Thu November 25, 2021 7:48pmReport post

Maij

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December 2020

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Posted Sun November 28, 2021 7:17pm
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Upset mum

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June 2020

2503 posts

Maij

So glad for you that your son received a Caution it's still a constant worry and just been able to rebuild his life will have its challenges but you are there for him and that alone means so much

Sending hugs from one mum to another xx

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Smile through tears

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Posted Sun November 28, 2021 8:36pm
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Maij

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Posted Mon November 29, 2021 9:19pm
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SoTired

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Posted Mon November 29, 2021 10:05pm
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Maij

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Posted Mon November 29, 2021 11:48pm
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Upset mum

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Evening Mums

Our love is unconditional

Sending hugs to you all xx

Posted Tue November 30, 2021 12:28amReport post

Carmela

Member since
November 2020

87 posts

Oh how my heart breaks reading this, remember prison isn't as bad as you think they will be ok a safe wing which is less lively than the mains. They are comfortable they can buy snacks watch tv etc and will be around people similar to them not necessarily really bad people, so please don't worry about them being in there. And keep in mind that they are good people who have done a bad thing Not that they are bad people. Sending lots of love to you all xxx

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Smile through tears

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Posted Tue November 30, 2021 3:51am
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Maij

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