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Just wondering what's it like for a Male when sentencing is over ?

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Chelsea 1

Member since
June 2021

891 posts

Posted Thu December 2, 2021 11:45pmReport post

Hello again.

Another question has just come to me.

Just wondering what's it like for a male once sentencing is over , maybe it being suspended or custodial.

Do they get treated any different in society..

Do they get a abuse in the street and towns.

Or do they try and lead some kind of normal lives to some extent.

Just wondering xx

Chelsea 1

Member since
June 2021

891 posts

Posted Fri December 3, 2021 9:45amReport post

Hiya Lee.

Love your last bit about ignoring people who dont matter.

Xx

Chelsea 1

Member since
June 2021

891 posts

Posted Fri December 3, 2021 10:20amReport post

Hiya Lee.

Love it.

Xx

NMS

Member since
November 2021

97 posts

Posted Fri December 3, 2021 1:32pmReport post

Lee, I am loving that comment and am going to try and remember that every single time I feel like I'm wrong for supporting my husband and am worried what others will think.

Your contributing to this forum is amazing and I thank you from the bottom of my heart for everything x

Edited Fri December 3, 2021 1:33pm

Chelsea 1

Member since
June 2021

891 posts

Posted Fri December 3, 2021 1:53pmReport post

Hiya Lee.

You have definitely given me a boost and I thank you lovely for it.

Xx

Chelsea 1

Member since
June 2021

891 posts

Posted Fri December 3, 2021 1:56pmReport post

Hiya NMS.

I am also supporting my husband through this and to better times.

Sod what other people think.

Xx

Staffy

Member since
May 2019

16 posts

Posted Fri December 3, 2021 5:35pmReport post

Hi ladies, I havnt posted for some time, but I still read through the posts daily, I don't know if this will help or hinder anyone really but I have stayed with my husband, (8 months suspended for 2yrs for sending elicit pic of himself to an undercover police officer posing as a 13yr old????) I have lost friends, I have been talked about by neighbours (press release, but no one brave enough to actually speak to me face to face!) our sons both grown up and living abroad have not spoken to their father since the court sentancing. My daughter in law has asked me not to include his name on any future gifts or cards for our grandchildren, boys, age 7,6 4 and 1 granddaughter aged 2.
it feels like I'm living 2 lives, mine and ours, none of this is easy, I thought it would get better in time but at present it's getting worse, CHRISTMAS family time ect ect, but.. I'm still with him, as hard as it is, I'm still with him, we have been together 32yrs and he made an awful decision in his life and done what he has done, but I'm going to try and get through this with him as I love him, some family standing by us and some sadly have walked away, all I can say is do what's best for you! I'm hoping in time our boys make contact with him. Time will tell and as they say time is a great healer and I'm hoping with all my heart that is true.

Upset mum

Member since
June 2020

2396 posts

Posted Fri December 3, 2021 5:52pmReport post

To all you very strong ladies on here no one has the right to make your decisions it is your choice on what you do

No one has walked in our shoes on what is the most difficult journey we have been through and are currently walking

This forum is my lifeline a group I would never in a million years thought I would need to be a part off

Sending you all a virtual hug xx

Chelsea 1

Member since
June 2021

891 posts

Posted Fri December 3, 2021 7:27pmReport post

Hello all.

How have the male partners been after the sentencing.

Any issues with general public ie the P word or fights. And any jobs xx

Big hugs xx