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Tracey

Member since
December 2018

450 posts

Posted Thu March 21, 2019 3:49pmReport post

So I've started to get really jittery about my son to be ex husband's sentencing tomorrow.

An I likely to hear more details about his offences?

It seems to have been a really long while waiting for this but I know a year isn't classed as long but some

I've spoken to the court and it's definitely going ahead, I even know what court he's in and the time!!

Fingers crossed he doesn't get custodial, although I know some people won't agree with me, not toy guys but the general public who don't understand the issues and problems that go with this. The bed for help not locking up, I just hope at the end of this my husband realises how wrong it is!!

Xx

Tracey

Member since
December 2018

450 posts

Posted Thu March 21, 2019 3:50pmReport post

So sorry about my predictive text, damn phone. At least I should get my electrical equipment back!!

Bethlou23

Member since
December 2018

383 posts

Posted Thu March 21, 2019 4:10pmReport post

Tracey I will be thinking of you. you going to attend with someone?

I believe you should here the list of offences and at least that will mean it’s all out in the open. The Lucy Faithfull section on denial is really interesting I was reading it yesterday. I think it’s how a lot of men cope with the shame. I also hope he deals with his issues. Though tomorrow what will be will be you stay strong knowing you are no part of his offending.



by attending your showing him you still care and that will mean a lot. What a mess these men get themselves into. In a way the criminal justice system will serve there punishment. And that allows you to grieve for your marriage and what’s been lost. We will be there every step of the way. Your not alone tomorrow.

Unfortuantlu you are brave because you have to be and it takes great strength and endurance to get through the first year. I am only still on the early days but I really admire you tracey xxx

Bethlou23

Member since
December 2018

383 posts

Posted Thu March 21, 2019 4:16pmReport post

Hear not here. I also struggle with the forum on my phone screen how it’s set up I can’t ever re read my posts.



yes let’s hope you get your equipment back (silver linings amongst the thunder clouds of this experience)

Bethlou23

Member since
December 2018

383 posts

Posted Fri March 22, 2019 8:58amReport post

Morning Tracey.

dress smart and hold your head up high, you got this today xxx