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I had that feeling as I walked out of school, after picking up my little girl, that the Head was watching me. I felt his eyes drill into me. I know SS had contacted school to check on my daughter's welfare but I only found out they had last week as I have been trying to get them to close my case as I am no longer with my partner.
It was a horrble feeling and possibly I am imagining it. But I feel like I am being judged, like I WILL be judged. But I did nothing wrong.
The emotions and feelings eh.....all over the place.
It was a horrble feeling and possibly I am imagining it. But I feel like I am being judged, like I WILL be judged. But I did nothing wrong.
The emotions and feelings eh.....all over the place.
How Bea,
It's possible and likely that the head teacher was looking at you with concern for you. That he was trying to work out how you're doing and whether you'd want his support. My children's head teacher had been amazing and having a good and open relationship with her has hugely helped with me getting the case closed. He won't be judging you Hun, these cases are normal for schools and they know you're not the offender, you had and have no control over someone elses actions.xx
It's possible and likely that the head teacher was looking at you with concern for you. That he was trying to work out how you're doing and whether you'd want his support. My children's head teacher had been amazing and having a good and open relationship with her has hugely helped with me getting the case closed. He won't be judging you Hun, these cases are normal for schools and they know you're not the offender, you had and have no control over someone elses actions.xx
SadAndWorried yes, probably. It's just such a horrid feeling knowing they know though. They spoke to my daughters teacher I believe who according to my daughter is being very strict with her. Im not sure if it's linked.
I think it's the unknown. As the case is being closed she (my daughter) won't have interviews at school etc thank god, so I don't to rock the boat really by enquiring further. I want it to just go away. until such time we know more and I can decide if we get back together.
we love each other, but for various reasons we can't go through the system until I am divorced and have the headspace to gather my ammunition and plan my next move. SS will put me on a long term assessment even if he gets a caution apparently (their last communication with me!) and that will involve my husband which I can't allow to happen.
I'm feeling a bit raw and battered emotionally. So yes, I'm likely being super sensitive.
I think it's the unknown. As the case is being closed she (my daughter) won't have interviews at school etc thank god, so I don't to rock the boat really by enquiring further. I want it to just go away. until such time we know more and I can decide if we get back together.
we love each other, but for various reasons we can't go through the system until I am divorced and have the headspace to gather my ammunition and plan my next move. SS will put me on a long term assessment even if he gets a caution apparently (their last communication with me!) and that will involve my husband which I can't allow to happen.
I'm feeling a bit raw and battered emotionally. So yes, I'm likely being super sensitive.