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Smile through tears

Member since
September 2021

2486 posts

Posted Fri December 24, 2021 9:30amReport post

Can I start the ball rolling on this Christmas Eve by saying my thoughts are with you all for the next few days, which will no doubt prove difficult at times....

We all will have different feelings - some sad thoughts and some feeling quite devastated but we are together wanting to help each other and grabbing our own peace/support in this forum.

Hug sent to everyone xxxx

Edited Fri December 24, 2021 9:32am

BaffledB

Member since
July 2021

874 posts

Posted Fri December 24, 2021 9:39amReport post

Hi Smile,

Agreed! This year it totally different from last year for me but I know that regardless of whatever happens at least next year it'll all be over and that brings me peace. I hope everyone manages to find some happiness over the festive period because my goodness, do we all deserve some!

Lots of love to everyone; you're all incredible xxx

Mum50

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December 2021

56 posts

Posted Fri December 24, 2021 10:00amReport post

Merry Christmas to you all

Not a week in yet so all very raw in our household.

But I have pledged to go to my daughters tomorrow and have some me time.

Thank you all so much for getting me past the last couple of days,and no doubt more to come.

Big hugs to you all x

Upset mum

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June 2020

2349 posts

Posted Fri December 24, 2021 10:10amReport post

Sending love strength and hope to you all over the next few days

xxx

Katie28

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December 2021

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Posted Fri December 24, 2021 10:45amReport post

After what has been the most horrendous experience we have ever had and I have to say the last week has just tipped us over with SS, we received news yesterday that we can spend the whole of our Christmas with our granddaughter. To say we are beyond joy us an understatement especially as it's her birthday on Christmas Day. I don't think we will ever get over this new way of living and having the authorities that are now in our lives for at least the next 10 years but we at least can celebrate Christmas in our home with my family all together. It doesn't matter we only got one Christmas card from the neighbours and there is a significant reduction in presents under the tree and we won't see the majority of our extended families but to have my granddaughter here with us us like a Christmas miracle.
I will be thinking and will never stop thinking about all the lovely people on this forum over Christmas who have helped me remain sane and so supportive and I sincerely hope everyone will find some peace at Christmas. Tbh, I'm not sure Christmas will ever be the same again and am fearful for what 2022 brings but my Christmas thoughts, love and blessings go out to you all. Xxxx

Upset mum

Member since
June 2020

2349 posts

Posted Fri December 24, 2021 4:55pmReport post

Katie28

Enjoy your day with your granddaughter it will be so lovely x

Less cards and presents dont matter its who you have around and with you that matter so much more

Have a wonderful day xx

Dawn14

Member since
June 2021

472 posts

Posted Fri December 24, 2021 9:41pmReport post

Hi,

I just want to say thank u for this message today, I was feeling really low today, after having a bad dream and I saw this post and it made me smile. I have only just been able to come back on to read the post fully, and because I'm watching telly feeling down as although we will be a family tomorrow we can't spend the night together watching the telly. So a massive thank u for cheering me up xx



Merry Christmas to u all



Xxxxx

Upset mum

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June 2020

2349 posts

Posted Fri December 24, 2021 9:47pmReport post

Dawn 14

Hugs and love sent xx

Dawn14

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June 2021

472 posts

Posted Fri December 24, 2021 11:49pmReport post

Hi upset mum,



Thank u xx its just hard sometimes xx

Smile through tears

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September 2021

2486 posts

Posted Sat December 25, 2021 8:19pmReport post

So we goes to our local for Christmas drinks and bump into an old school pal of my sons - obv unaware of the situation. Asks how's he doing? A year later and still has the ability to knock me for six and remind me how much I miss him and wish he was here with us.

Edited Sun December 26, 2021 4:07am