Bad day today
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I'm having a bad day today. Keep bursting in tears, just thinking of how much my son has lost. I suppose the trigger was a few things that reminded me of what he had - his own house, a decent job and a future! Now I can't see a way forward.
He is not allowed to live in his house so he's having to live with us, my husband and I are slowly doing the house up for rent but it doesn't help that it's a good hour away. I'm just so tired of everything - thank heavens for this forum where at least we can vent our feelings and be understood. At least he wasn't married and doesn't have children.
He is not allowed to live in his house so he's having to live with us, my husband and I are slowly doing the house up for rent but it doesn't help that it's a good hour away. I'm just so tired of everything - thank heavens for this forum where at least we can vent our feelings and be understood. At least he wasn't married and doesn't have children.
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Hi my son is currently waiting charges from CPS Images across all categories, he also has his own home, had a good job as well, not working now though as had to leave due to nature of Job, I am worried about what will happen and if he will have to leave his home and rent it out or maybe worse case scenario sell it , why can't your son live in his home anymore ?
AnotherMum - sorry you're having a bad day and sending you a hug. Come and join the thread 'Cutting thinking time' - it's a really nice positive chatty one xx
Smile through tears and Lola53.
Thanks for your support. Smile, yes, it was his responsibilty and his decisions but as you say, so hard. I've read many of your posts and have great admiration for you and the way that you can remain so positive and so willing to offer your support to others. Lola53 - The thread 'Cutting thinking time' is lovely and positive, isn't it and offers so many good ideas.
sadmum,
It was a condition of his sentence being suspended, so he had support for his depression and porn addiction. It has made life very complicated!
Thanks for your support. Smile, yes, it was his responsibilty and his decisions but as you say, so hard. I've read many of your posts and have great admiration for you and the way that you can remain so positive and so willing to offer your support to others. Lola53 - The thread 'Cutting thinking time' is lovely and positive, isn't it and offers so many good ideas.
sadmum,
It was a condition of his sentence being suspended, so he had support for his depression and porn addiction. It has made life very complicated!
Hi Another mum
Same thoughts I have all the time my son is on remand waiting for sentencing
Just wanted to send hugs xx
Same thoughts I have all the time my son is on remand waiting for sentencing
Just wanted to send hugs xx
Thinking of you lovely strong ladies you are all amazing x
I'm with you all.
My son left his job and his flat living with us at the moment he as no idea what to do nor do we he can't begin to make a new start and job and friends as he thinks he will lose that all over again when and if he does get charged.
Life is a roller coaster at the moment lots of ups and downs I can not see the light at the end of the tunnel .
So glad I have this forum to come to .
X
My son left his job and his flat living with us at the moment he as no idea what to do nor do we he can't begin to make a new start and job and friends as he thinks he will lose that all over again when and if he does get charged.
Life is a roller coaster at the moment lots of ups and downs I can not see the light at the end of the tunnel .
So glad I have this forum to come to .
X
Hi Anothermum,
some days I feel really po Shhh itive about things. Then I too temember how excited I was when I yhought my son had the world at his feet . His job would take him all over the world if he wanted, he gave up the job just before he disclosed his offense , hes at home not working at the moment . Heartbreaking. Sending you a big hug. Yes as Lola says come join us on a positive threat "cutting thinking time" we all need a boost!
maij x
some days I feel really po Shhh itive about things. Then I too temember how excited I was when I yhought my son had the world at his feet . His job would take him all over the world if he wanted, he gave up the job just before he disclosed his offense , hes at home not working at the moment . Heartbreaking. Sending you a big hug. Yes as Lola says come join us on a positive threat "cutting thinking time" we all need a boost!
maij x
Hi can I ask where I look for the thread that some of you are saying I would lovecto join the thread x
Thank you
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Thank you
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Mum50, it's in this 'Discussion and Support' section and is called 'Cutting thinking times'. Smile through tears started it and it's lovely, come and chat xx
I've always been quite an optimist but this situation has bought our family to its knees. We have much more to face in the future when my son is released.
i work so hard on trying to live for each day and not to stress over things I have no control over......
i work so hard on trying to live for each day and not to stress over things I have no control over......
Smile through tears, big hugs to you xx. I really understand how you feel, sometimes it's so hard. But then the sun shines, or you hear a bird singing and somehow you create the strength to go on and have hope xxx