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Nat

Member since
February 2022

1 post

Posted Mon February 14, 2022 8:14pmReport post

New Year's Eve we had the knock,husband was arrested on the doorstep taken away and questioned.Every devise was took away and currently being investigated.We have 2 daughters 8 and 13,they were also questioned that same night,has your dad ever touched you inappropriately,has he ever took photos of you inappropriately?! To this day they don't know why he was taken away by the police..and I don't want them to know.All I know is that he was on KiK and shared images, he tells me he can't remember what he looked at but I guess he won't tell me as he's too ashamed.Just feel like my family has been ripped apart.

Lucy from Stop it Now!

Member since
September 2018

447 posts

Posted Mon March 7, 2022 3:20pmReport post

Hello Nat,

Thank you for posting on the Family and Friends forum, we understand that it is not easy to post on a forum about these difficult situations. I can see that you have not yet had a reply on your post, hopefully someone else in a similar situation can reply soon with some support.

If you have not already, I would also encourage you to contact our Stop It Now! helpline. The helpline is anonymous, confidential and free, on 0808 1000 900. One of our trained advisors will then be able to explore your situation in detail and provide some support. Our trained advisors deal with similar concerns to yours every day, and will be able to talk these through with you and offer you the best advice we can.

I hope this has been helpful.

Take care,

Lucy

Edited Mon March 7, 2022 3:21pm

Janie3005

Member since
February 2022

8 posts

Posted Mon March 7, 2022 3:36pmReport post

I'm so sorry you're going through this Nat and such a difficult for time your daughters too by the sounds of it. My husband has also said that he shared things on Kik but has no recollection of that ever being iioc. It's so hard to know what to believe isn't it? Sending hugs and hoping you'll find support here. X

Dawn14

Member since
June 2021

472 posts

Posted Mon March 7, 2022 6:32pmReport post

Hi Nat,

Sorry u find urself here where no one's to be, I can't really offer advice on the apps, but the ladies on here are very knowledgeable, try and look through some previous posts lovely no one here judges so ask away x