So very sad
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Smile, sometimes it just rises up and hits us doesn't it? Maybe, in years to come, when all this is behind your loved one and he has moved on with his life, you will be able to look at the photos and just have those happy memories.
Love and hugs. Stay safe today.x
Love and hugs. Stay safe today.x
It's heartbreaking, isn't it. I get facebook memories popping up and it makes me so sad and it taints those lovely memories.
Huge hugs xx
Huge hugs xx
Thanks ladies x
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My son changed his name so that he will be charged in his new name - our surname is distinctive so it was to protect us and his sibling as much as anything. It still feels odd when mail arrives for him.
Hi Ladies
We are thinking to change his surname once he has been sentenced as once he is out of prison he can try to rebuild again xx
We are thinking to change his surname once he has been sentenced as once he is out of prison he can try to rebuild again xx
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Hi Smile, yes, really easy - although to be fair, we used the solicitor that is dealing with his case. We had all the paperwork prepared and then on the morning of his second interview when we got disclosure of what the charges were likely to be, we just pressed 'go' and did it there and then.
Hi my son changed his name before charges so hoping it is the only name read out at court, we just printed it off online and sent it to solicitor and he passed it onto the police before he went in to find out charges, really easy to do and was free , I just bought some parchment paper off amazon for the copies we sent to dvla and bank etc..
Ladies
Would you say it is better to change before sentancing or after as I am not sure what's best he is on remand and will get custodial when sentanced so I was thinking to do before he is released when ever that will be xx
Would you say it is better to change before sentancing or after as I am not sure what's best he is on remand and will get custodial when sentanced so I was thinking to do before he is released when ever that will be xx
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Hi Upset - how's tricks, hope your ok. Have you got a date yet? I know by other posts it's very hit and miss with cancellations and delays. I do feel so sad for all the ladies and families in this situation.
Hi Smile
Court is in 5 weeks dreading it but at least we will know what sentance he will get x
I just hope they dont send him to far away from us x
Hope your ok x have you joined mumsnet as yet?
Court is in 5 weeks dreading it but at least we will know what sentance he will get x
I just hope they dont send him to far away from us x
Hope your ok x have you joined mumsnet as yet?
Hi upset / yes, at least you then know what you have to face and can move on out of limbo land.
im always a bit cautious now on line - it took me lots of time and courage to join in on this Forum, so not gone onto mumsnet x
im always a bit cautious now on line - it took me lots of time and courage to join in on this Forum, so not gone onto mumsnet x
Morning Smile
Same as me always a bit wary but I am glad to share some of my experience with you and others on here as there really is no where else to go for support
I an starting the inform course the end of march not sure if it will be the right course to do but I will give it a go x
Hope your keeping ok and your son is ok.
Take care xx
Same as me always a bit wary but I am glad to share some of my experience with you and others on here as there really is no where else to go for support
I an starting the inform course the end of march not sure if it will be the right course to do but I will give it a go x
Hope your keeping ok and your son is ok.
Take care xx
Upset mum
hi just to let you know I done the course it was so hard to hear some things but am so glad I don't it hope it helps you understand how this happened.
sending hugs xx
hi just to let you know I done the course it was so hard to hear some things but am so glad I don't it hope it helps you understand how this happened.
sending hugs xx
Prinsess
Thank you this has put my mind at rest xx
Thank you this has put my mind at rest xx