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Jayjay

Member since
December 2021

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Posted Tue March 15, 2022 8:04pmReport post

My OH Is having private therapy sessions with a psychosexual therapist (think that's what it's called) once a fortnight, organised via stopso. Is once a fortnight ok? Therapist recommended it.

He is doing the modules off stop it now.

walking, climbing, keeping mind busy.

is there anything else he could be doing to help himself, his recovery and/or his case ?

Jayjay

Member since
December 2021

695 posts

Posted Tue March 15, 2022 9:16pmReport post

He's trying Lee.

He's having therapy to try and work it out.

Doesn't know whether porn addiction or habit and became desensitised. Says not sexually attracted to u18s, didn't see photos he looked at as victims at the time, just photos. He does now realise and feels sick about it all. He's beating himself up and knows what he's done to us.

just wondering if there is anything else constructive out there that he could be doing?

Jayjay

Member since
December 2021

695 posts

Posted Wed March 16, 2022 9:22pmReport post

hes been doing timelines / memories with therapist and his memory is absolutely shocking! I have suggested something happened to him where he's blocked it out, he doesn't think so but is working on it and keeping his mind open as a possibility but he doubts it. (Very frustrating)

He thinks he's got bored of looking at the same stuff, stumbled upon iioc and liked the taboo/risk of something wrong/illegal different