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Has he did any work on himself? Or admitted to anything? If not thars could be why he's remanded and why social services have deemed him a risk?
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Wow seems a bit harsh for 3 images.
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Hey Never,
I'm so sorry you're going through this. I totally understand why you feel torn, I felt like that for a long time as the Police really laid it on thick that my partner was viewing CP, meeting underage kids, all sorts, they really painted him to be a total animal but luckily something told me that they were being malicious and when the evidence came through it was abundantly clear that was the case because of many reasons but mainly due to their massively differing statements of events at the arrest - one said he went to get a weapon, one said he resisted arrest, loads of clearly different accounts teamed with a lack of evidence of offending in the first place done clearly by him. For months I tried hard to believe my partner but there were doubts in my mind and only the evidence could cease those doubts. I know from my time on this forum that those accused can often lie and minimise what they've done but there are also those who are telling the truth and it's very difficult to work out which one is the case. Everyone's case and circumstances are so different although the charges may be the same and it's really hard to advise. Even though I was more inclined to believe my partner I did try to mentally prepare myself for the possibility of him lying - financially and emotionally, when the charges came through it sent me spinning because I was sure that it meant he had lied but then once I saw the evidence, that changed. I can't imagine what it would be like to have to deal with SS too because you're under scrutiny and expected to do everything they say. I really hope you're ok and get some kind of resolution to this as soon as possible xx
I'm so sorry you're going through this. I totally understand why you feel torn, I felt like that for a long time as the Police really laid it on thick that my partner was viewing CP, meeting underage kids, all sorts, they really painted him to be a total animal but luckily something told me that they were being malicious and when the evidence came through it was abundantly clear that was the case because of many reasons but mainly due to their massively differing statements of events at the arrest - one said he went to get a weapon, one said he resisted arrest, loads of clearly different accounts teamed with a lack of evidence of offending in the first place done clearly by him. For months I tried hard to believe my partner but there were doubts in my mind and only the evidence could cease those doubts. I know from my time on this forum that those accused can often lie and minimise what they've done but there are also those who are telling the truth and it's very difficult to work out which one is the case. Everyone's case and circumstances are so different although the charges may be the same and it's really hard to advise. Even though I was more inclined to believe my partner I did try to mentally prepare myself for the possibility of him lying - financially and emotionally, when the charges came through it sent me spinning because I was sure that it meant he had lied but then once I saw the evidence, that changed. I can't imagine what it would be like to have to deal with SS too because you're under scrutiny and expected to do everything they say. I really hope you're ok and get some kind of resolution to this as soon as possible xx
Hi Never
How come he's been remanded for 3 images?! have you been able to speak at all? Don't be scared to question SS and ask for clarification of why he's deemed a risk.
how come some people are waiting a year for magistrates and some gets sent the next day?! X
How come he's been remanded for 3 images?! have you been able to speak at all? Don't be scared to question SS and ask for clarification of why he's deemed a risk.
how come some people are waiting a year for magistrates and some gets sent the next day?! X
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