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So upset this afternoon . My little girls been up at the fence again wanting to play with her friends . I feel like I can't invite her friends (from school) over because when this later gets brought into the media they will be angry that I have had there children over here playing in the garden . When it's sunny all the girls from next door are in the garden and asking to come over ect I don't know what to do I feel so bad for my little girl. It's a very small village and all her school friends seem to live on our street or the next . I try to distract her and take her out ect but all she wants to do if play with her friends . It's so unfoar for her . Can't be in a room alone with her dad her dad not staying here all these lies all these storage rules she has to follow xxx

Thank you for the reply . They normally just play out next door in the garden I don't really see the parents . But yes seems that's the only way . She has another friends that lives not far away and the mum has taken the girls out and it's my turn next . But noone seems to want to do things all together they just want me to have the children if that makes sence . I have a new born aswell and I'm struggling being the only one up all day and night with the baby . Do social services ever lift this ban off the father having no alone contact ect because.i really need some help xx

Thank you , goodness that sounds hard in lockdown . My family can't know so I can't really ask for help from them I'm hoping noone ever finds out but ino that's eishfull thinking . I will ask the health visitor about holiday club ect I havnt even sorted my fiance's yet I have to sign on the benefits now as I won't be able to do my job as it was weekends and mixed shifts and I will have to have the girls . My head is a mixture of feeling all the time . One day I want to move away and leave the pranter the next I don't . He's not coping well today says he hates himself ect in he struggles when he visits looking at his new daughter he can't stay over or look after her proberly I think it feels like there no connection xxx