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Davier30

Member since
February 2022

17 posts

Posted Wed April 20, 2022 6:57pmReport post

Hi everyone

We had vigalanty at the door in February he's been talk to a 13 year old. (Decoy). At first I was gutted and he had to be bailed to his parents house.

We have done everything ss have said with regard to contact of our 1 year old twin boys. He has to supervised by his parents

Our issue is that we are never alone and we cannot dicuss out relationship both of us want to stay together. He is getting therapy and so am I.

Strangly we appear to be stronger together now. My family are dead against our relationship now. I don't know what is going to happen with regards to the case against him.

Gemsie867

Member since
March 2022

46 posts

Posted Wed April 20, 2022 8:55pmReport post

I'm sorry you find yourself here.

People will judge on what they hear rather than letting these men explain what's happened. Everything is so black and white to everyone.

I understand completely the not getting chance to talk openly about moving forward with having the children around. Talking via phone doesn't seem to be the same either. My partner has been moved out of the area for his own safety after the vigilante knock so we have no choice but to communicate via phone.

Is there anyone close that can help look after the twins for a little while whilst you go and talk things through?

I hope you manage to get sorted. Remember take each day as it comes and look after yourself.