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My son is in crown today for sentencing. Been advised to take a bag for the worst outcome.
Can anyone tell me is he taken away from the court immediately or can I get a chance to see him again before he's taken to prison?
He is not coping with this at all and I'm so worried about his mental health. He talks suicide far too much. Saying at least if he's Not hear I'll not have to live with what he's done. I can't tell him enough how worse it will be if he's neve coming back.
Can anyone tell me is he taken away from the court immediately or can I get a chance to see him again before he's taken to prison?
He is not coping with this at all and I'm so worried about his mental health. He talks suicide far too much. Saying at least if he's Not hear I'll not have to live with what he's done. I can't tell him enough how worse it will be if he's neve coming back.
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I'm. Not sure I haven't git to tgat stage yet but just wanted to say my partner still talks like this sometimes, they don't understand how we can still love them but we know they are good people who made a mistake and everyone makes mistakes, every single person so tell him he's been punished enough and to stop punishing himself and move forward, don't let this define him, especially if young. My heart goes out to you today xx
Hello,
If he does receive a custodial he will be taken to the holding cells immediately and you won't see him.
Thinking of you all today and hoping for a fair outcome.
My ex is currently in prison. He is doing ok. Feels safe. Its obviously prison and not meant to be easy but better than he imagined!
Xxx
If he does receive a custodial he will be taken to the holding cells immediately and you won't see him.
Thinking of you all today and hoping for a fair outcome.
My ex is currently in prison. He is doing ok. Feels safe. Its obviously prison and not meant to be easy but better than he imagined!
Xxx
So Sad,
Sending love, strength and hugs to you all today, I will be thinking of you xxx
Sending love, strength and hugs to you all today, I will be thinking of you xxx
Sending you all the love and strength in the world for today xxx
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Thankyou for your replies Lady's.
I had a feeling I wouldn't see him but was hanging on to a tiny bit of hope!
Terrified for the outcome of today and what's still to come.....
I had a feeling I wouldn't see him but was hanging on to a tiny bit of hope!
Terrified for the outcome of today and what's still to come.....
Thinking of you & sending love, hugs & strength. Xx
So sad,
I truly hope he's dealt with fairly and it's as easy on you both as it possibly can be. Sending lots of love and strength xx
I truly hope he's dealt with fairly and it's as easy on you both as it possibly can be. Sending lots of love and strength xx
So Sad
thinking if you during today and send in your all the strength xx
thinking if you during today and send in your all the strength xx
So sad.
I hope you got a good outcome today
xxx
I hope you got a good outcome today
xxx
So sad, how are you and how did you get on? X
Well my son can sleep in his own bed tonight.
My son had 5 charges against him of 'making' cat A, B and C. Moving pictures and extreme.
The prosecution tried to get him for distribution but the judge dismissed it as there was no evidence that he shared. Even though they argued that he 'might'.
At first he was looking at 18 month immediate custody. But as he pled guilty at his first arrest 2½ years ago and has taken steps to get help over this time he ended up with 3 years probation and community service. He is on notification and SHPO for 5 years.
He must complete some programs with probation.
Following advice on here I contacted the solicitor about character reference and thankfully the judge took my comments into consideration.
I really hope everyone else gets a happy outcome and we can all start to rebuild our lives again.
My son had 5 charges against him of 'making' cat A, B and C. Moving pictures and extreme.
The prosecution tried to get him for distribution but the judge dismissed it as there was no evidence that he shared. Even though they argued that he 'might'.
At first he was looking at 18 month immediate custody. But as he pled guilty at his first arrest 2½ years ago and has taken steps to get help over this time he ended up with 3 years probation and community service. He is on notification and SHPO for 5 years.
He must complete some programs with probation.
Following advice on here I contacted the solicitor about character reference and thankfully the judge took my comments into consideration.
I really hope everyone else gets a happy outcome and we can all start to rebuild our lives again.
Hi So Sad
I am so pleased of the outcome for you and your son.
I wish you all the best for the future. x
I am so pleased of the outcome for you and your son.
I wish you all the best for the future. x
I am so happy for you and your son best wishes for the future xxxx
So Sad
Glad you had a better outcome than you thought - I wish your family all the best as you put your lives back together...... x
Glad you had a better outcome than you thought - I wish your family all the best as you put your lives back together...... x
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So Sad
Ahh bless you sending hugs
He is home in his own surroundings so that in itself is a huge relief xx
I wish you all the very best as you all rebuild a new life
May the sunshine and happiness return to you all x wishing you love, strength take care xx
Ahh bless you sending hugs
He is home in his own surroundings so that in itself is a huge relief xx
I wish you all the very best as you all rebuild a new life
May the sunshine and happiness return to you all x wishing you love, strength take care xx
Baby steps for you both , glad he's home.
For you it's just the start , I'm the same . We are now 8 months post sentencing , he's lost his part time job but can finish his college course on line . I still worry every day if its getting too much for him, he doesn't go out and has self harmed before.
The sentencing was for us as well as him
For you it's just the start , I'm the same . We are now 8 months post sentencing , he's lost his part time job but can finish his college course on line . I still worry every day if its getting too much for him, he doesn't go out and has self harmed before.
The sentencing was for us as well as him