Social services and more info from police
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Hi, h has been home over night for a few months (arrest oct 21, home Feb 22) but just got a call from ss to advise he needs to go back to his parents as police have been in touch with more evidence (he's been invited for police chat, solicitor has asked for evidence or info on what and they have said will give it the morning of day of chat)
We were on a children in need plan and ss had signed him okay to be back home, then 2 weeks after signed us off.
Anyone been in similar situation or can advise if he should go or whether I can say will revert back to safety plan of him being home (we have pretty much stuck to that anyway after being signed off ) I don't want to make things worse later down the line but also don't want him to leave again or disrupt things especially as our eldest starts his GCSE very soon.
We were on a children in need plan and ss had signed him okay to be back home, then 2 weeks after signed us off.
Anyone been in similar situation or can advise if he should go or whether I can say will revert back to safety plan of him being home (we have pretty much stuck to that anyway after being signed off ) I don't want to make things worse later down the line but also don't want him to leave again or disrupt things especially as our eldest starts his GCSE very soon.
Sorry but he needs to do what they say. Ss have so much power and will use it against u later on in reports. U need to show them and make it clear that u put ur children and their safety first over him and anything else. I'm not saying that ur not putting the children first but please make it clear to the SW u r. Trust me I'm 18 months into and my children are on the at risk register still and have a PLO (one up from at risk where they review and decide if they are safe in ur care or should be removed) against us. I'm only still on them because the SW is not doing the assessments and reports on us or getting them in in time for the meetings. Quiet frankly I just don't want them in my house anymore.
sorry if it's blunt but I really don't want anyone to go through the hell I have and I'm still going through.
hope ur all well in this difficult time x
sorry if it's blunt but I really don't want anyone to go through the hell I have and I'm still going through.
hope ur all well in this difficult time x
That's awful rusty.
We have done everything so far but they signed him off to be home properly (overnight) if we were following our safety plan, they then signed us off.
So surely just going back to safety plan would be okay as he was still rui.
I blummin hate ss, they have me more anxious than the potential police outcome and aftermath.
We have done everything so far but they signed him off to be home properly (overnight) if we were following our safety plan, they then signed us off.
So surely just going back to safety plan would be okay as he was still rui.
I blummin hate ss, they have me more anxious than the potential police outcome and aftermath.
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