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I heard from my partner this morning. He told me how is therapist appointments have been going. We hard a conversation about what comes next with his bail and what we should expect and then I have throights. On his arrest there was a name on a device he had in his possession. I asked if he had or has someone else. For him to inform me there was someone else only once or twice!
nothing loving between an adult and him from a dating site and meant nothing apparently. He said it is part of his addiction the therapist has told him but I don't know what to believe.
he said he's always and still loves me, I've asked why do this then and he said he couldn't stop himself his head is messed up.

confused, messed my head up over again, do I carry on supporting do I run for the hills. My feelings haven't changed for him just hurt so much again.

Sorry to hear you have been through this as well. He was arrested and they found a photo and communication to an another adult about sexual things regarding this Photo of a child. He has been released on bail and waiting to hear what they say this week as his bail is up this week.



He keeps saying it's part of the addition from what his therapist has told him. He has also had something happen to him when he was younger which the therapist has told him this is the reasoning behind all of this problem. I just don't know and he has said he will tell me the whole truth by the end of the day about what he has done what happened to him when he was younger as I wasn't aware of this until now.

Do you mind me asking what was your husband arrested for? If they were communicating with over 18 I can't get my head around the issue? Or was it communication about a child with over 18? This all confuses me so much

I see, yes my partner was in communication with an adult about a child. I have asked if he knows if it was an under cover police etc and he said he doesn't know they haven't told him. I will speak to him later about the courses. I just can't bring myself to talk at the moment and don't know what to think. I feel a lot has been hiding from me as I did not know anything about him being abused as a child and he said he hadn't told anyone not even parents. I just don't know what to think anymore. He said his therapist has told him he needs to set his head back to 0 and keep going to therapy and he is also under a mental health hospital that he checks in for a chat weekly.
Is this all the normal thing we should be doing. I have no clue what to advice him or what he should be doing.



sorry to be such a loss in this world.

Thank you so much for your help and advice Lee!
Hes had contact with the police who has said he is no longer on bail. Have you got any advice in what this means?