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Bob

Member since
September 2021

36 posts

Posted Wed May 11, 2022 6:48pmReport post

Hi everyone not been on here for a long time, just to give you all a update as to what’s been going on, my OH was arrested in September last year, he has had his first interview when he went to answer bail they said they did not want to see him and said they would be in touch well fast forward till jan this year the police come around for another interview and was told nothing found on any devices no videos, phots nothing so the charge they arrested him for they could not do as they were trying to say he was trying to meet but no evidence of that so he had to go to court so we went and he pleaded not guilty then were told to go crown court, to then be told they have give him the wrong charge so we had to back to court again to say his plea again for them to charge him on another charge a less charge ( 4 times we had been told to go to court and then told us not to go ) it has been in the media four times now all stating different charges so now we have to go crown court or so we think next week we have to phone the day before to find out if this nightmare will carry on or not. He was arrested for having a conversation with a undercover police women, I just wish it was all over as none of us can handle another year or so of This my kids have been bullied at school, SS have not got involved myOH Is still having to sleep in the car, sorry it’s a long rant I have just had enough any advice as to what’s might happen please I know every case different but I just need a little help x

Edited Wed May 11, 2022 6:50pm

Upset mum

Member since
June 2020

2402 posts

Posted Wed May 11, 2022 8:02pmReport post

Hi Bob

I cant offer you any advice unfortunately but I had to just reply to you

Sorry for this awful journey you are both on and as much as this takes so long, the never ending of uncertainty I just hope you can get to get the case over and done as soon as possible

Sending hugs xx

Bob

Member since
September 2021

36 posts

Posted Wed May 11, 2022 8:15pmReport post

Thankyou x

Polly Pocket

Member since
May 2022

440 posts

Posted Wed May 11, 2022 8:27pmReport post

Hello Bob,

I have no advice to give but sending strength to you.

This must be such a painful experience for you, especially with all the set backs.

You've come this far and you can get through the rest. Sending love X

BaffledB

Member since
July 2021

876 posts

Posted Wed May 11, 2022 9:31pmReport post

Aww Bob I'm so sorry, you really have been through it! Is your OH pleading not guilty to the lesser charge too? Is it just one single charge in relation to the conversation with decoy? Xx

Bob

Member since
September 2021

36 posts

Posted Thu May 12, 2022 1:29pmReport post

Hi baffledB, yes he is pleading not guilty and yes just one conversation

Edited Thu May 12, 2022 1:37pm