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ScaredLamb

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May 2021

203 posts

Posted Wed May 18, 2022 10:09pmReport post

So after 1 year and 2 days my hubby has magistrates tomorrow.
I am so nervous and really don't know what to expect.
he is meeting solicitor there to go through evidence and what he should plea - I would have expected he would have done that before but aparently not!
Hubby hasn't had any bail conditions so far, is he likely to get any on the day?
Any advise?

Distressed and pregnant

Member since
November 2020

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Posted Wed May 18, 2022 10:25pmReport post

Hi,

No advice I'm afraid as my partner was remanded from arrest until sentencing. Just wanted to wish you all the best for tomorrow, will be thinking of you all xx

Dawn14

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June 2021

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Posted Wed May 18, 2022 10:39pmReport post

Hi,

Just wanted to wish u good luck, and to be honest I would have thought that too over wat he was pleading. It doesn't take to long and it was only me and hubby and solicitor in there really as we were still under restrictions.

Blackhound

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October 2020

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Posted Wed May 18, 2022 11:33pmReport post

Good luck tomorro scared...

His solicitor will likely talk him through the case against him... Then he'll be asked what his plea is ... Then adjourned until they can build a pre sentence report over the next few weeks ... This is the time to showcase all of the work he's done.

Edited Wed May 18, 2022 11:33pm

Daffodil

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Smile through tears

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Posted Thu May 19, 2022 8:15amReport post

Hug sent x

Newlady

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Posted Thu May 19, 2022 9:38amReport post

Big hugs today xx

Upset mum

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Posted Thu May 19, 2022 9:51amReport post

Thinking of you both x

Hugs sent xx

Chelsea 1

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Posted Thu May 19, 2022 9:52amReport post

Good luck for today hun.



Thinking about you xx

Sadsister22

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Posted Thu May 19, 2022 10:12amReport post

ScaredLamb

Thinking of you today. Just think of it as another step closer in the process.

Take care x

x

Alison20

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Posted Thu May 19, 2022 10:52amReport post

Thinking of you today and sending strength and a hug your way. x

Xxx

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Posted Thu May 19, 2022 11:35amReport post

Thinking of you .hugs xx

Polly Pocket

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Posted Thu May 19, 2022 12:53pmReport post

Big love and strength to you today xxxxx

ScaredLamb

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May 2021

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Posted Fri May 20, 2022 9:11amReport post

Hi all

Thabk you for your kind words.
it was actually ok. His barrister was lovely and really helped us. She has said what she thinks the culpability and harm are and therefore the possible sentencing- she thinks suspended. We had to option to go through all the evidence in detail but hubby didn't want that. He knows what he's done. I also had the option but chose to just read the highlights. That's enough. I know the man he is now and the work he has done. I don't need to read the whole chat logs.



He pleaded guilty to all charges (attempting 2 comms 2 attempting to engage). And he has pre sentencing report 7th June and awaiting to hear confirmation that sentencing will be 16th June.



He went directly to sign on the register abs we have been given the draft SHPO (internet restrictions and no unsupervised with under 16s without SS say so - will be getting it in writing that doesn't include our daughter though we would wait for SS anyway).



On the way home we listened to our daughters "dance party" playlist and got milkshakes. We made the best of it.

Ineedcoffee

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April 2022

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Posted Fri May 20, 2022 11:33amReport post

Thank you for sharing. I'm glad it was ok.

We are not at charges yet but it helps to get an idea of what will happen.

Newlady

Member since
April 2021

644 posts

Posted Fri May 20, 2022 12:25pmReport post

Glad this parts over for you both, hope it's a good outcome, you've a good attitude to it all but juat prepare for a custodial, just in case, it's all down to the judge on the day and will be a terrible shock for youboth. Thats what we are doing too when we eventually get to court xxxx

Upset mum

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Posted Fri May 20, 2022 3:10pmReport post

ScaredLamb

Thank you for the update and glad it wasnt as bad as you thought

Everything x for you both xx

ScaredLamb

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May 2021

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Posted Fri May 20, 2022 6:28pmReport post

Hi Newlady.
oh I know to prepare. I'm kind of expecting custodial to be honest. As that's the kind of luck we have!! His prison bag is packed already xx

Newlady

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April 2021

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Posted Sun May 22, 2022 4:35pmReport post

I really hope not xx