Hubbys said. Been on SOR for 3 weeks and nothing has changed !!
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Good evening Ladies.
So me and hubby where out walking enjoy food etc.
And he brought it up by saying , been on SOR for 3 weeks and nothing has changed.
My comment from that is that we have the court case to get through and my gut feeling is a suspended sentence then every 3-6 visor team and then we will rebuild and be better future.
Is that correct ???
So me and hubby where out walking enjoy food etc.
And he brought it up by saying , been on SOR for 3 weeks and nothing has changed.
My comment from that is that we have the court case to get through and my gut feeling is a suspended sentence then every 3-6 visor team and then we will rebuild and be better future.
Is that correct ???
Hiya Lee.
Sorry hun. How's you this evening ?
No was just saying me and hubby was out and he said it's strange he's been on SOR for 3 weeks and nothings happened.
He was asking what other changes will happen and all I said see what happens at crown and then visits from visor every so often.
is this correct ?
Sorry hun. How's you this evening ?
No was just saying me and hubby was out and he said it's strange he's been on SOR for 3 weeks and nothings happened.
He was asking what other changes will happen and all I said see what happens at crown and then visits from visor every so often.
is this correct ?
What do probation do on a weekly service then if it goes to a suspended sentence.
His solicitor have said if we play our cards right then we are going for a suspended sentence and probation have said they are putting forward a community order with added extras.
Like yourselves and others have said depends on the judge on the day. But my get feeling tells me and I always go by it says suspended.
How you greeting on hun. ???
His solicitor have said if we play our cards right then we are going for a suspended sentence and probation have said they are putting forward a community order with added extras.
Like yourselves and others have said depends on the judge on the day. But my get feeling tells me and I always go by it says suspended.
How you greeting on hun. ???
Hi Chelsea,
I just wanted to back up what Lee said really about being prepared for the worst. Much like yours, Our solicitor kept saying my partner would get a suspended sentence and probation recomend a community order but on the day he received a 20 month prison sentence. We were both totally unprepared for this and it distroyed me. I don't want to worry you but I do want you to know what to expect. I really hope you get the outcome you want on the day x x
I just wanted to back up what Lee said really about being prepared for the worst. Much like yours, Our solicitor kept saying my partner would get a suspended sentence and probation recomend a community order but on the day he received a 20 month prison sentence. We were both totally unprepared for this and it distroyed me. I don't want to worry you but I do want you to know what to expect. I really hope you get the outcome you want on the day x x
Amilia121 this seems quite voyeuristic and maybe insensitive, but there seem to be so few people with prison sentences (although increasing) on this forum, I find it helpful to see others peoples posts re custodial so as I can prepare and understand how the journey might play out and what to expect. It must have come as such a terrible shock to you, we were always expecting custodial and I'm quite grateful for that. My partner /ex is 5 weeks into a 40 month sentence (20 in prison). How are along the journey are you? Is that a 20 month sentence (10 inside)? As always, obviously only if you want to share. This is such a hard and delicate journey and custodial comes with some much more to deal with and navigate.
Sorry for taking over the original post
Sorry for taking over the original post
Hiya Amilia121 and SAL.
Thank you for your words.
What where your charges etc ?
Xx
Thank you for your words.
What where your charges etc ?
Xx
Hi sal
Not insensitive at all I totally understand where you are coming from, I'm really glad you knew what to expect from court. Its hard to put into words how awful that time was I just couldn't understand how they had got it so wrong (2 solicitors and probation) or at least said to prepare for a sentence as you never know. Most of all I felt incredibly guilty at not properly preparing my daughter for the loss of her dad. She was 5 when he was sentenced. I thought if he was going to get a suspended sentence I didn't want to worry her for nothing.
Yes he has to serve 10 inside and was sentenced in October so will be released in August.
5 weeks in, I imagine your still adjusting to him being gone. It's a really tough time at the beginning. Always her if you need to chat or to answer any questions x x
Not insensitive at all I totally understand where you are coming from, I'm really glad you knew what to expect from court. Its hard to put into words how awful that time was I just couldn't understand how they had got it so wrong (2 solicitors and probation) or at least said to prepare for a sentence as you never know. Most of all I felt incredibly guilty at not properly preparing my daughter for the loss of her dad. She was 5 when he was sentenced. I thought if he was going to get a suspended sentence I didn't want to worry her for nothing.
Yes he has to serve 10 inside and was sentenced in October so will be released in August.
5 weeks in, I imagine your still adjusting to him being gone. It's a really tough time at the beginning. Always her if you need to chat or to answer any questions x x
Chelsea
I'm struggling to fully remember the exact charges but I think there were 9 charges
1 was category A
The rest were b and c
But as others have said you can torture yourself thinking about it. It will be down to the judge on the day x x
I'm struggling to fully remember the exact charges but I think there were 9 charges
1 was category A
The rest were b and c
But as others have said you can torture yourself thinking about it. It will be down to the judge on the day x x
Thank you hun.
Thank you hun for letting me know.
I hope there wasn't to many photos etc.
I hope you are ok hun ?
xx
Thank you hun for letting me know.
I hope there wasn't to many photos etc.
I hope you are ok hun ?
xx