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Nellie

Member since
May 2022

19 posts

Posted Mon June 6, 2022 10:43pmReport post

How exactly do you keep your kids afloat when your quietly drowning and have no one to turn too , how do you keep waking up and starting each new day with the secret you can't tell , friends and family just think your ignoring them but you actually can't face them , incase they become suspicious , this is unbearable and there is no get out clause !!

Dawn14

Member since
June 2021

472 posts

Posted Mon June 6, 2022 10:46pmReport post

Hi,

I am so sorry u r feeling all alone come on here and rant away, I no its hard not having anyone to talk too, but u will always find a very person on here xx

Smile through tears

Member since
September 2021

2550 posts

Posted Tue June 7, 2022 4:35amReport post

Big hug sent Nellie - so sorry you are plunged into this nightmare. The beginning of this journey is the absolute worst - I will NEVER in my life forget the physical pain and mental torture of it all.

you WILL gather that strength - on our lovely forum you will always have a friend close at hand x

Nellie

Member since
May 2022

19 posts

Posted Tue June 7, 2022 6:54amReport post

I feel so much for you all , what a supportive group this is, sending each qnd every one of you hugs xx

Xxx

Member since
March 2022

439 posts

Posted Tue June 7, 2022 7:35amReport post

Sending hugs it's awfull isn't it . I'm such a close person to friends and family it's so hard. My partners family live far away he's just cut all contact out of ebarresment . I've had to tell them he's okay it's nothing they have done but they don't understand. Then when I had the baby I had to tell them and they wernt happy they didn't know. My family don't know anything so I paint on a happy face . I wonder is all this is worth it if it's comes out anyway they could of been here to support us. But I feel at least the children are still having normal visits with there grandparents.

I have prepared for the worst but I'm very sensitive I'm not sure how I will cope when everyone knows and I have to do the school run ect and all the neighbours kids are in the garden in trying to put tresil and things up to shetle us a bit more.

I feel awfull everyday I'm so mad that this is what happened. But then I look at him and he's broken . I still will have family support and the kids to hold at night he will have nothing . In his words he could find the core for cancer him will always been seen at the world worst man .

Will will get through this eveen if the worst happens it wil be over and we will all be happy again xxx

Newlady

Member since
April 2021

644 posts

Posted Tue June 7, 2022 10:46amReport post

I know the feeling and you're not alone, even if it feels like it. Who would have thought he only support we'd have is strangers on the Internet. I feel totally isolated and have cut off completely from the world, I still have my children and my work but I'm very very private about my life. I've lots of friends but nearly see them anymore. My partner has all sorts of support and help and yet I've been left to seek my own. Irs so I fair since we are totally innocent and never brought any of this yo ourselves. Sometimes I feel like just walking away.