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I wish you the best of luck ...I will depend on the charges and the judge....I go to church most days just to say a little prayer I will pray for you x

Hi Nellie

i just wanted to reach out from one mum to another & hope it goes as well as it can on Tuesday!!
I'm waiting for a sentencing date for my son we went to majistrates 2 weeks ago & I will be going with him too!! I'm an absolute wreck & we haven't even got a date yet!! It's so hard for us as we can't control the outcome!!

Stay strong, big hugs & will be thinking of you xx

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Thinking of you Nellie x

I feel your pain Nellie. Try to relax as much as possible today, talk a walk together, go for lunch. Good luck for tomorrow x

Lee, just another question, solicitor says we can't get the PSR or SHPO until the day of court - im assuming by your post you got it beforehand, how do we go about this? X

Sending you lots of love to you and your son xxxxxx

Hi Nellie,

Will be thinking of you tomorow, sending hugs :) (I can't imagine reaching the point you are at as we are still waiting) xx

Aww Lee that has thrown me into a quandary as the PO who did PSR and solicitor are saying he won't get it until the day. We meet prior to sentencing on the day to go through everything with a fine tooth comb. I would have liked to have slept on it, I like to be in control and I'm not! Am I correct in thinking the SHPO will have been drafted by OIC AND CPS? I have oic direct line if so could ask them?
I know there was a lady on here recently who didn't get a SHPO (although very rare) so that must have been decided prior to sentencing? Unless the judge threw it out? X

Oh and I have looked on cps website and can't see it, if you could point me to the correct section? X

Thank you so much! Another email sent and will be calling him tomorrow to tell him to pull his finger out!!
I need to calm down, run, sleep, anything ahh!

Nellie, best of luck and stay strong, please let us know how you get on tomorrow x

Hi Nellie

Thinking of you and your son tomorrow and hoping you get a good outcome.

Stay strong x

Hope all has gone well today xxx

Nellie

Hope you are both ok xx

Hope it's gone ok today Nellie x

Oh and Lee, I sent solicitor the cps extract saying he should have PSR and SHPO - he says he still hasn't got PSR and he understands my concerns but there will be ample time on the day to scrutinise SHPO as well face to face on the day!! X

My persons legal team basically said that it would be ready when it's ready and chasing the CPS wouldn't make it arrive any sooner. We received the PSR 4.45pm the day before sentencing, I can't help but feel that it was available but was sent at the last possible minute and the SHPO on the day.

I feel so angry about it now because I think they were just being lazy in not chasing it and I do wonder if there is anything on there that we might have fought if we'd had time to digest.

I wish I'd had the link Lee sent, I'd have pushed hard with my person to push his legal team.

I think they need to realise that whilst this might be an everyday occurrence for them, it's certainly not for us! I'm really annoyed and will be telling them tomorrow x