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Anxietyknocks

Member since
July 2022

6 posts

I got the "knock" while I was at work. I couldn't even believe what he was saying - my husband was arrested at work and they'd been in my house and seized everything. I broke down. My parents know and his parents know... it was a one off, a stupid mistake, but I can't look at him the same

It's like the more information I get from him the worse it is. He used a chat service and added random people - so he wasn't actively looking but he also didn't stop

I got the knock two days after our 1 year wedding anniversary... I feel so broken, but I have an overwhelming need to protect him, but at the same time I just can't fathom what's happening right now.

Does it get better? Are there people out there that have stood beside their partners and survived without drowning?

Posted Mon July 11, 2022 9:34amReport post

Confused&worried

Member since
June 2022

328 posts

It's only 11 days post knock for me. I don't know if it will get any better for me and mine, but I do know that just reading the messages on this forum have kept me standing.

The ladies here are genuine life savers.

Posted Mon July 11, 2022 10:08amReport post

Anxietyknocks

Member since
July 2022

6 posts

I'm at 5 days right now... so it's still very fresh, and I'm only 26, I feel like I'm too young to have this kind of thing happening in my life

Posted Mon July 11, 2022 2:15pmReport post

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