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My life has been shattered

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Anxietyknocks

Member since
July 2022

6 posts

Posted Mon July 11, 2022 9:34amReport post

I got the "knock" while I was at work. I couldn't even believe what he was saying - my husband was arrested at work and they'd been in my house and seized everything. I broke down. My parents know and his parents know... it was a one off, a stupid mistake, but I can't look at him the same

It's like the more information I get from him the worse it is. He used a chat service and added random people - so he wasn't actively looking but he also didn't stop

I got the knock two days after our 1 year wedding anniversary... I feel so broken, but I have an overwhelming need to protect him, but at the same time I just can't fathom what's happening right now.

Does it get better? Are there people out there that have stood beside their partners and survived without drowning?

Confused&worried

Member since
June 2022

326 posts

Posted Mon July 11, 2022 10:08amReport post

It's only 11 days post knock for me. I don't know if it will get any better for me and mine, but I do know that just reading the messages on this forum have kept me standing.

The ladies here are genuine life savers.

Anxietyknocks

Member since
July 2022

6 posts

Posted Mon July 11, 2022 2:15pmReport post

I'm at 5 days right now... so it's still very fresh, and I'm only 26, I feel like I'm too young to have this kind of thing happening in my life