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Evening Blackhound
I cant offer much advise other than you need to do what is right for you , this journey really does bring out the best and worst in people some are amazing and supportive but others we have to tippy toe around as not to upset them, but you have and are living this, you did nothing wrong x
How would people feel if you cancelled it? How would you feel if you did?
You could maybe do something for the both of you a weekend away xx
I cant offer much advise other than you need to do what is right for you , this journey really does bring out the best and worst in people some are amazing and supportive but others we have to tippy toe around as not to upset them, but you have and are living this, you did nothing wrong x
How would people feel if you cancelled it? How would you feel if you did?
You could maybe do something for the both of you a weekend away xx
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Blackhound
We all get one shot at this life and you do what is and feels right for you and your hubby
This journey is horrendous but we are all still here and it is great you have support
Go with your heart and as a good old saying goes you just need to look forward and not ever look back
We always worry about what should we do for the best as we dont want to offend etc
You hold your head high and if you want a party then do it and enjoy every second of it
If not then you both do something you will both love xx
We all get one shot at this life and you do what is and feels right for you and your hubby
This journey is horrendous but we are all still here and it is great you have support
Go with your heart and as a good old saying goes you just need to look forward and not ever look back
We always worry about what should we do for the best as we dont want to offend etc
You hold your head high and if you want a party then do it and enjoy every second of it
If not then you both do something you will both love xx
Blackhound
If you don't want to do it, don't do it. And remember circumstances and situations change, as do people's opinions over time, so it may not be a cancellation as much as a postponement. Whatever you are celebrating, you *can* celebrate it at another time. Whenever you like. With whoever you choose.
If you don't want to do it, don't do it. And remember circumstances and situations change, as do people's opinions over time, so it may not be a cancellation as much as a postponement. Whatever you are celebrating, you *can* celebrate it at another time. Whenever you like. With whoever you choose.
Hiya x
It sounds to me that you might feel as if a weight has been lifted off your shoulders if you cancel your party?, maybe cancel and say the reason is your venue fell though.
Book an alternative trip away for you and your husband if that feels right.
Go with your heart hun x I hope you are ok x
It sounds to me that you might feel as if a weight has been lifted off your shoulders if you cancel your party?, maybe cancel and say the reason is your venue fell though.
Book an alternative trip away for you and your husband if that feels right.
Go with your heart hun x I hope you are ok x
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Hiya
Sounds like a good plan, plus you get to celebrate your birthday a few times which you absolutely deserve.
Have a wonderful time no matter what you choose to do xx
Ps happy birthday for when the day comes
Xx
Sounds like a good plan, plus you get to celebrate your birthday a few times which you absolutely deserve.
Have a wonderful time no matter what you choose to do xx
Ps happy birthday for when the day comes
Xx