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Confused&worried

Member since
June 2022

326 posts

Posted Wed July 27, 2022 8:52pmReport post

Every aspect of life is effected by this nightmare, as you all know.

How do you avoid the blame game? I am constantly say "Well it's all you fault!!!"

Although most days he is racked with guilt and regret, when things get tough he just seems to blame everyone for all his problems.

The blame days are just the worst days.

Ariagni

Member since
December 2021

10 posts

Posted Thu July 28, 2022 7:00pmReport post

My work colleague said something to me in regard of blame, my youngest son is on SOR, my eldest has a good job, she said to me you raised both the same therefore its nothing you have done wrong for this to happen. I could have hugged her.

Smile through tears

Member since
September 2021

2551 posts

Posted Fri July 29, 2022 4:23amReport post

Hi Ariagni - really feels like a candle has been lit when a person thoroughly 'gets it' and just understands..... x

Edited Fri July 29, 2022 4:37am