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Hi ladies,
It's been a while since I posted but I've had a crazy few months. I now sit in my new house and my husband's journey has still not gone any further. Still Rui since the knock in September. I just want to get this all done and dusted as although I agreed to stay with him (he's the love of my life) out relationship has really took a hit and were struggling to keep it going and I have no idea how to save it. 15 years is a long time to give up on. It's annoying to think they expect our lives, our kids lives to be on hold for nearly a year. They just want sleepovers and time alone with their dad. It's so sad as he's a brilliant dad and I know he is not the monster they're all trying to make him out to be.
Well there's my little rant x
It's been a while since I posted but I've had a crazy few months. I now sit in my new house and my husband's journey has still not gone any further. Still Rui since the knock in September. I just want to get this all done and dusted as although I agreed to stay with him (he's the love of my life) out relationship has really took a hit and were struggling to keep it going and I have no idea how to save it. 15 years is a long time to give up on. It's annoying to think they expect our lives, our kids lives to be on hold for nearly a year. They just want sleepovers and time alone with their dad. It's so sad as he's a brilliant dad and I know he is not the monster they're all trying to make him out to be.
Well there's my little rant x
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:( in ts awful isn't it . I was the same not heard a thing then got an email for a seconf interview now we're back to waiting for charges again . My girl is the same just wants alone time with dad . A walk to play Barbie's in her room to go to mcdolands anything . And the friend things is a massive issue for us . I don't know how I can make up excuses for that long it seems everyone latley wanted to be friends and come over . Sending you love and support . Will will all make it out of this mess. It can't last forever xxx
Yes the housing issue was a massive fight. So glad it has finally sorted, didn't end up in a b&b or hotel which was a main fear because of having to put our pets up elsewhere.
just feels like it's ok in all the professionals eyes for my kids to suffer and lose a year with their dad. As someone who lost their dad as a teenager I understand how much this time with parents is precious.
we've lost everything because of this investigation, his job, our home I'm just hoping we don't lose our marriage as well.
thank you for all your kind words and the support from others who know how I feel is appreciated. No one else really understands how this feels. Big hugs to you all x
just feels like it's ok in all the professionals eyes for my kids to suffer and lose a year with their dad. As someone who lost their dad as a teenager I understand how much this time with parents is precious.
we've lost everything because of this investigation, his job, our home I'm just hoping we don't lose our marriage as well.
thank you for all your kind words and the support from others who know how I feel is appreciated. No one else really understands how this feels. Big hugs to you all x
Mumof3girls
Glad to read your update and that you finally were able to find a home,
Sorry you are still in limbo but nothing about this journey suprises me
Hope you are all staying strong xx
Glad to read your update and that you finally were able to find a home,
Sorry you are still in limbo but nothing about this journey suprises me
Hope you are all staying strong xx
Mumof3
I am glad to hear you found somewhere new to live, I can't begin to imagine how awful to leave your family home. It seems so wrong that this crime robs not just the perpetrator but also their family of so many things - homes, jobs, friends, family, peace of mind...
I am glad to hear you found somewhere new to live, I can't begin to imagine how awful to leave your family home. It seems so wrong that this crime robs not just the perpetrator but also their family of so many things - homes, jobs, friends, family, peace of mind...