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Dee197878

Member since
May 2022

29 posts

Posted Sun August 14, 2022 11:10amReport post

Knock on door around 8am Oct 2017 me and 2 children questiond OH arrested ss involved and I had hard time copeing suicidal all devices was checked and they didn't find anything the next April my daughter did not want to come home from school so they rang ss.ss involved again they thought the worst turns out they think she's autistic.fast forward to may 2022 another knock say he's been talking to a young girl sexualy.he then went on to say 14 year old girl but it was decoy he says he fel out of love with me 2 years ago but for me I've never felt the same since first knock but I still miss the person he was we was togeter 18 years 2 children 13 and 15 dauter is autistic and I find it hard dealing with all this and her this room keeps me going I can't believe us women are this strong I didn't know we had it in us

Jayjay

Member since
December 2021

695 posts

Posted Sun August 14, 2022 12:02pmReport post

Hi Dee, hope this doesn't sound too harsh but sounds like you've stayed with him despite what he did and he's gone on to let you down again. Get some support from school for your daughter and some support from GP/therapy for yourself, put you and the kids first and try to move on without him. Never forget how far you've come and how strong you really are x

Dee197878

Member since
May 2022

29 posts

Posted Sun August 14, 2022 1:17pmReport post

Jay jay not at all to harsh you are right .Daughter has education other than at school we have learn via interests and therepy and council tick off any outings she likes as long as it's learning and her tutor is fantastic also education at council is also brilliant always asking if we are ok and putting Extra activities.



Also I never want to go back with the ex it's no life to be treated this way.



Thank you for taking your time to respond and hope all is ok for you hopeing you get all you want at the end of this horrible situation we are in hugs x