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Globe trotter

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June 2021

48 posts

Posted Wed August 24, 2022 11:08pmReport post

Well today i checked the online press and there it was, 2 days after the crown court case. We live in a small town and have been on our street for a long time. We know all the street. Its ok for hubby as he works from home but i have to go out and face the world. I am really angry for what he has done. The worse thing that its in the online space too. Hubby said that he will fill in the right to be forgotten link as soon as his suspended sentence is up

Edited Wed August 24, 2022 11:09pm

Orchid94

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July 2021

98 posts

Posted Wed August 24, 2022 11:56pmReport post

Hi Globe Trotter,

I'm sorry that the papers have managed to get hold of it. I hope they haven't sensationalised any details but fingers crossed it'll be old news soon. Remember what Lee says too "those that mind, don't matter and those that matter, don't mind". Keep looking after yourself and take it day by day. X

Smile through tears

Member since
September 2021

2553 posts

Posted Thu August 25, 2022 6:05amReport post

Hi - yes the Google thing is horrendous as it has no fading memory and it's there in your face for anyone that taps in your name.

I try not to torture myself over it as there's nothing I can do. But I share your desperation it's so unfair to the innocent families.

Edited Thu August 25, 2022 6:11am

Xxx

Member since
March 2022

439 posts

Posted Thu August 25, 2022 8:21amReport post

Sorry to hear this :( I hope you don't have any trouble. Terrified of this and it's making me think to move before it happens to me xxx

Smile through tears

Member since
September 2021

2553 posts

Posted Thu August 25, 2022 8:27amReport post

Xxx. - Just to add to my post we had no trouble whatsoever and neighbours who did speak to us about my son were very supportive.

Edited Thu August 25, 2022 8:27am

SAL

Member since
December 2021

895 posts

Posted Thu August 25, 2022 8:45amReport post

I'm sorry this has happened. I hope you don't get any trouble. The actual sentencing seems in someways to be least punishing part of these crimes.

I hope it blows over quickly for you and people are supportive.

Globe trotter

Member since
June 2021

48 posts

Posted Thu August 25, 2022 9:38pmReport post

lee1969 thank you for your words of encouragement, I was wondering if the right to be forgotten also applies to a certain online data base - whose name should not be mentioned. If you know what I mean

SAL never a truer word said

Edited Thu August 25, 2022 9:39pm

Globe trotter

Member since
June 2021

48 posts

Posted Thu August 25, 2022 10:30pmReport post

lee1969 may I say that your knowledge is really helpful are you saying that the online safety bill will bring about the end of the data base ?

Sadmom80

Member since
July 2022

13 posts

Posted Fri August 26, 2022 8:48amReport post

Hi Globetrotter,



Our case also hit the local paper . And sensationalised it for the soul purpose of selling more of the local rag. At that moment it felt so raw and felt liked we'd never get pasted it, however nearly 7 weeks on I can say that to the people who care in our lives they have been nothing but supportive & to the others i truely don't care what there thought process are, as I know who we are and that is all that matters. I want nothing but to reverse time to before the knock but thats never happening so we move forward and help my son be a better person and lead a positive and productive life from this point on.



Sending love and hugs to all who are travelling this road.

Edited Fri August 26, 2022 8:49am