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StrugglingMum

Member since
August 2022

8 posts

Posted Tue August 30, 2022 12:39pmReport post

It's been 7 weeks since the knock at the doir and I've been feeling a bit better had counselling but this morning the arresting officer called asking if I would be available to look at some pictures and identify people in the pictures and now I'm terrified has anyone else had anything similar and is this normal I'm terrified of what I'm going to be shown

Xxx

Member since
March 2022

439 posts

Posted Tue August 30, 2022 5:38pmReport post

I havnt any experience in that I'm afraid . We just had the arest and second interview . Sorry to hear what you going thought . Sending support and hugs xx

scaredandconfused

Member since
June 2021

437 posts

Posted Tue August 30, 2022 6:02pmReport post

Xxx what happened after the second interview was it just another waiting game.my husband is at his tomorrow and I'm really confused about it all and worrying like mad

StrugglingMum

Member since
August 2022

8 posts

Posted Tue August 30, 2022 6:05pmReport post

Thank you I called the helpline and they said this can happen and it may just be they're looked at what photos are simply family photos but my anxiety is through the roof.

I'm so sorry that u are having to go through a similar hell I hope your doing OK x

Xxx

Member since
March 2022

439 posts

Posted Tue August 30, 2022 7:46pmReport post

Yes I'm afraid waiting for the CPS to give the charges . Been waiting for the postman everyday . And today as my partner came home upset from loosing a job the solicitor emailed the charges . He has to go in and collect them on Friday . Hope Ur okay it's awfull :( xx

Carmela

Member since
November 2020

87 posts

Posted Tue August 30, 2022 8:14pmReport post

You won't see anything bad in the pictures it will be for you to identify location, for example it could be your relatives / friends kitchen or say your bedroom, and maybe identify children but again won't show you anything bad. Are the charges Voyerisms?

scaredandconfused

Member since
June 2021

437 posts

Posted Tue August 30, 2022 8:44pmReport post

Xxx I'm so sorry to hear that I hope your ok. Great timings hey. Xx

BaffledB

Member since
July 2021

876 posts

Posted Wed August 31, 2022 9:56amReport post

Hey Struggling,

I remember reading on here a couple of ladies have had to do this too. I don't think you will see anything unsettling but it can be unsettling wondering about things so please call the helpline if you need to speak to someone xx