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I just wondered if anybody could help I have the monthly visit this morning but my husband had his second interview last week I obviously have to tell her due to it being an update but how much do I say I'm worrying about saying to much or not enough where it then looks like I'm sticking up for him. We are still together too so obviously they look for ways to says I'm encouraging to much

Thankyou she puts me really on edge every time she's very opinionated she's sees it has my husband working and the occasional working away over night has him living an amazing life. I literally only want to say the bare minimum I don't see why I should have to tell her. I just wasn't sure if I could do bare minimum and say the police have said they will be contacting you which they said to husband

Yes exactly it's been nearly 15 months and she hasn't even done his risk assessment yet his used his last part of leave and booked it off 3 times for her to cancel she is useless.

he did ring solicitor this morning but his on leave so was just advised to say but not too much which isn't very helpful when I'm on my own with two children and her interigating me

Thankyou so much for the advice other than telling her to shove it which I don't think would go down well

We thought it was weird because how can she know if his a risk to our children when the evidence wasn't there to know what he had been doing.

She still hasn't turned up yet it should of been 10.30 it's how useless she is

2.5 hours now Hun and still nothing I've messaged her no reply. I'm at that point today where I really have gave up with her. She books cin meetings for when both boys are at home even though the nursery have said do a afternoon where it helps me just having one she's rubbish just doesn't listen and goes on too much about poor her and her workload

I do Hun I put it on calendar she's always here nearly two hours she's really slow. I've finally got through and she's basically said she's forgotten because she's got loads of case loads due Monday and she breaks up today considering I messaged her at 11.30 with no response. Apparently she's going to connect somebody who's on duty to see if they can come out so god knows what time that will be. I thought she was bad before this but this is something else

I am fuming I absolutely love wasting mine and my children's time being stuck in a house.

I am actually hoping this duty person comes out because I will be getting all the information for a massive complaint. I've let alot slide because I've got too much of everything else to deal with.

I'm really sorry I'm struggling to wirte at the moment I'm just so angry I'm actually laughing

I've messaged you with a s&c just incase I've not messaged you and it's somebody else