New User... Babys Dad..
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My first time posting I'll try to give a bit of a backstory. Meet my partner while in college. After 1.5 years I got pregnant. He left when I was 4 months pregnant to go work for a former company in any other province. Plan was to move in together that summer before the baby came.
When he was out there he did alot of stupid stuff. Drinking. Drugs. Escorts. Sex calls. There was a phone recorder on his phone. I listened to some of the call. He talked about liking young girls and so forth I dont really. Like talking about it. I was shocked. And stunned. I called the police. They came and seized his phone and computer.
I have young daughters ( not his) that he had a great connection with and was amazing with. I didnt move to where he was.
The police gave him back his phone and computer after 6 months.
The baby came and he was still doing stupid stuff just not that that I knew of. He has seen the baby twice. He is still really far away. Things had been really rocky and up and down but in the last little bit they have been really good. Until today.
I found a video on his phone,not of him. I'm disgusted and horrified and sick to my stomach, again. I thought he was done that. He wasnt high, probably drunk.
I told him a few times he needed to get help for sex addiction. I dont know what to do now. Do I confront him. Do I call the police again. Do I still talk to him. Idk.
I'm just lost and stunned. I love him even after he hasnt been the best I've forgiven him I've tried to be there for him. I've tried not talking in the past and it's so hard. I miss him when we don't talk. He is a great guy and has so many great qualities.
When he was out there he did alot of stupid stuff. Drinking. Drugs. Escorts. Sex calls. There was a phone recorder on his phone. I listened to some of the call. He talked about liking young girls and so forth I dont really. Like talking about it. I was shocked. And stunned. I called the police. They came and seized his phone and computer.
I have young daughters ( not his) that he had a great connection with and was amazing with. I didnt move to where he was.
The police gave him back his phone and computer after 6 months.
The baby came and he was still doing stupid stuff just not that that I knew of. He has seen the baby twice. He is still really far away. Things had been really rocky and up and down but in the last little bit they have been really good. Until today.
I found a video on his phone,not of him. I'm disgusted and horrified and sick to my stomach, again. I thought he was done that. He wasnt high, probably drunk.
I told him a few times he needed to get help for sex addiction. I dont know what to do now. Do I confront him. Do I call the police again. Do I still talk to him. Idk.
I'm just lost and stunned. I love him even after he hasnt been the best I've forgiven him I've tried to be there for him. I've tried not talking in the past and it's so hard. I miss him when we don't talk. He is a great guy and has so many great qualities.
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