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Xxx

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Posted Tue September 27, 2022 8:13amReport post

Hi guys . It's the plea hearing/ first court visit tomorrow . I'm not sure what's going on in my mind I think I've got to the point of it not sinking in because I havnt been crying ect which is unusual for me in this journey . It's Asif my body / mind if holding its breath . I surpose there's no point in the worry to much as we won't ge the outcome tomorrow . All seems about unreal . Planning the outfit how to get into the court without beeong seen ect . I'm assuming it won't be in the media tomorrow as there not really much they can report but ino that it could be and then I'm unsure weather I lock myself in the house and turn of my phone . Ino I will have to be strong and get the school run done. I just pray to god that when taking her to school if anyone says anything she won't be with me ect xx

Life feels over

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Posted Tue September 27, 2022 9:55amReport post

Sending you strength x

Xxx

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Posted Tue September 27, 2022 10:05amReport post

Thank you xxx

ScaredLamb

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Posted Tue September 27, 2022 3:24pmReport post

Sending you lots of love

Upset mum

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Posted Tue September 27, 2022 6:45pmReport post

Xxx

Sending strength and hugs to you both for tomorrow xx

Xxx

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Posted Tue September 27, 2022 7:29pmReport post

Thank you both feeling are kicking in about now praying for a miracle xxx

Christmas Chaos

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Posted Tue September 27, 2022 8:03pmReport post

Best of luck for tomorrow

GreenYellow

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Posted Tue September 27, 2022 8:23pmReport post

Sending lots of love for tomorrow.

I like you found myself unable to cry the day before and day of the court dates. It's like I was only focusing on what needed to be done, instead of how I actually felt about it. And strangely, I think this helped me to get through it. I hope everything goes as ok as it can xxx

Xxx

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Posted Tue September 27, 2022 8:48pmReport post

Thank you . So strange isn't it . I normally worry everyday about every single thing . How do I go to the park swiming . What will mum say my dad the person I spoke to once 7 years ago anything I'm an over thinker panicker and today I'm like get the kids bathed ready for bed . Shine the shoes for court check everything ready ect it's like I'm preparing him for an interview . Almost like my feelings have ran out xx

NMS

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Posted Wed September 28, 2022 7:48amReport post

Good luck today.

We were plea at Crown Monday and I totally get everything you have said, it's like our bodies and minds go into practical mode in order to protect us.

I hope it's very quick and you have no media etc xx

Xxx

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March 2022

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Posted Wed September 28, 2022 1:52pmReport post

Thank you . All over with for today . Probation could hold assesment today . New court date 3 weeks time at crown court . Hopefully pronation can fit him in before hand or it will be ajourned. No press that we know of have to keep checking the news xxx

Daffodil

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Posted Wed September 28, 2022 2:46pmReport post

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