Tired of it now.
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Hi all.
So I don't really feel like I have the right to complain. As we have been so so lucky with social workers ect. My hubby was never asked to leave home and we are on a CIN plan for our one year old.
But. God I'm tired of it!!! Got another visit today with social worker. But nothing has changed for a year now. Still on going. They want to do assessments but they were waiting for court. Court has happened and now waiting on availability and what probabtion want to do. But I'm so tired. I want to be able to go out. I want my daughter to be able to have time out with her daddy.
Im bored of the visits which mean I have to lose out on childcare and arrange with work to be home. All for the SW to pop in for 5 minutes and leave again.
Can I ask for things to get a move on? If I start pushing to get things changed are they going to be less accepting and supportive? I'm just so tired of it all. Since my daughter was born I've had 2 days out on my own. Because my parents have been able to come and supervise my husband (they live hundreds of miles away and his family are useless). I crave being able to go out to the shop when she goes to bed or go for a walk when she naps. But I can't. Because I can't leave her with my husband. And he's such a good dad.
I know I shouldn't complain. I know how good I have it. But I'm fed up.
So I don't really feel like I have the right to complain. As we have been so so lucky with social workers ect. My hubby was never asked to leave home and we are on a CIN plan for our one year old.
But. God I'm tired of it!!! Got another visit today with social worker. But nothing has changed for a year now. Still on going. They want to do assessments but they were waiting for court. Court has happened and now waiting on availability and what probabtion want to do. But I'm so tired. I want to be able to go out. I want my daughter to be able to have time out with her daddy.
Im bored of the visits which mean I have to lose out on childcare and arrange with work to be home. All for the SW to pop in for 5 minutes and leave again.
Can I ask for things to get a move on? If I start pushing to get things changed are they going to be less accepting and supportive? I'm just so tired of it all. Since my daughter was born I've had 2 days out on my own. Because my parents have been able to come and supervise my husband (they live hundreds of miles away and his family are useless). I crave being able to go out to the shop when she goes to bed or go for a walk when she naps. But I can't. Because I can't leave her with my husband. And he's such a good dad.
I know I shouldn't complain. I know how good I have it. But I'm fed up.
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I totally agree with the comment above.