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Hi,
This is my first post although I have been reading all others for months now.
We got the knock in June this year, for my partner, and obviously turned our world upside down. We have 2 children aged 7 and 3. He has had no contact with them since due to the bail conditions. The only reason they have had to be extended is because the social worker hadn't done her report in time. She still hasn't done it but bail has been dropped, he's now released under investigation. We wasn't told this he has emailed asking for a copy of the extended bail conditions and the police informed him he had been off bail for 10 days. What reason could this be? They said they are checking devices in the next few weeks also. Social worker also told me stuff that wasn't told to him during interviews? Such as grooming, planning to meet and that there was concerns he had shared pictures of our children? Where would she get this from if he hasn't even been arrested/told this?
social worker said he can have supervised contact but obviously there is no bail anymore. Where do we stand? She has missed time frames again and again for no real reason and I just feel at a loss. I am also having to do a parent protect course. I feel like I am being punished for this. I'm really struggling.
he was arrested for communication x2.
please somebody give me some advice I'm losing my mind. We are no longer together but he's still my childrens dad and they're struggling without him.
This is my first post although I have been reading all others for months now.
We got the knock in June this year, for my partner, and obviously turned our world upside down. We have 2 children aged 7 and 3. He has had no contact with them since due to the bail conditions. The only reason they have had to be extended is because the social worker hadn't done her report in time. She still hasn't done it but bail has been dropped, he's now released under investigation. We wasn't told this he has emailed asking for a copy of the extended bail conditions and the police informed him he had been off bail for 10 days. What reason could this be? They said they are checking devices in the next few weeks also. Social worker also told me stuff that wasn't told to him during interviews? Such as grooming, planning to meet and that there was concerns he had shared pictures of our children? Where would she get this from if he hasn't even been arrested/told this?
social worker said he can have supervised contact but obviously there is no bail anymore. Where do we stand? She has missed time frames again and again for no real reason and I just feel at a loss. I am also having to do a parent protect course. I feel like I am being punished for this. I'm really struggling.
he was arrested for communication x2.
please somebody give me some advice I'm losing my mind. We are no longer together but he's still my childrens dad and they're struggling without him.
Hi Georgia
Sorry you have found your self here but you are in the right place for help and advice,
I dont have any advice on SS but if your partner has been released under investigation it means there is no time scale for the police to.do what they need to,
I am.sure some of the other lovely people on here will be able to explain the SS side of things to.you
Sending strength and hugs xx
Sorry you have found your self here but you are in the right place for help and advice,
I dont have any advice on SS but if your partner has been released under investigation it means there is no time scale for the police to.do what they need to,
I am.sure some of the other lovely people on here will be able to explain the SS side of things to.you
Sending strength and hugs xx
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You should talk to a social worker and find out the reason for her behavior, you don't deserve judgment, we shouldn't be punished for our partners.