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So my partners alcohol tag came off about two weeks ago.. He's spiralled today hardcore.
He needs help. He needs to be sectioned. He self harmed again, this time in small ways so I don't notice. When I leave, he will kill himself. He hates himself for cheating years ago and for his crime. He has body dysmorphia severely.
I really need him to admit himself. I needed the ambulance I phoned earlier to admit him but nope.
Ive been mentally unwell as well up and down and told him that I'll be looking into a place to buy for myself.
I know he's too weak to do it himself.. He'd rather die or self harm accidentally in so badly that he dies.
Im just powerless.
He needs help. He needs to be sectioned. He self harmed again, this time in small ways so I don't notice. When I leave, he will kill himself. He hates himself for cheating years ago and for his crime. He has body dysmorphia severely.
I really need him to admit himself. I needed the ambulance I phoned earlier to admit him but nope.
Ive been mentally unwell as well up and down and told him that I'll be looking into a place to buy for myself.
I know he's too weak to do it himself.. He'd rather die or self harm accidentally in so badly that he dies.
Im just powerless.
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He's been handed over to the crisis team now and he's got his first councelling under probation tomorrow too.
Ive started looking for houses too to buy myself.
It's very sad but I feel at peace with it right now. Add on to this that I have sexuality questions I want to get answered and I guess that makes it easier. But by no means does it mean that I don't love and care for my partner... I just cannot help him.
I will always stand by what I say about his crime as well.. He's not a monster. These men aren't monsters. Theyre missing some pieces and they need help to find them.
Ive started looking for houses too to buy myself.
It's very sad but I feel at peace with it right now. Add on to this that I have sexuality questions I want to get answered and I guess that makes it easier. But by no means does it mean that I don't love and care for my partner... I just cannot help him.
I will always stand by what I say about his crime as well.. He's not a monster. These men aren't monsters. Theyre missing some pieces and they need help to find them.
Oh my goodness, you've been through it. You've really been through it. You've hit the stopping point and you can't take anymore. You've honestly did everything u could. Your doing the right thing your guts telling you to do. Next time tell him to straight to a & e if he presents himself suicidal, they have to take him in. You need to get help for yourself now. I know when my person tried twice second time nearly successfully, it was horrendus.i feel for you x
My goodness I really feel for you. I hope you are getting some support too.
has he been sectioned? You've done the right thing. Awful situation for you both x
has he been sectioned? You've done the right thing. Awful situation for you both x