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Xxx

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March 2022

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Posted Tue October 11, 2022 8:36amReport post

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Smile through tears

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September 2021

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Posted Tue October 11, 2022 11:27amReport post

Hi Xxx - I don't think anyone can be 'prepared' for this traumatic event in our life. X

i was relieved in a strange way when my sons court case was over - at least we knew what he:we had to face and we could move on.....

bless you and good luck x

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SAL

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December 2021

895 posts

Posted Tue October 11, 2022 2:21pmReport post

Other than practicalities I don't think it's possible to emotionally prepare, I think it's particularly hard for those people where the sentencing could go either way.

I knew my person was going to prison, it was just a case of how long for, so it came with some relief when it finally happened - We knew what we were working with.

I hope the next 9 days don't come with too much anguish.

Edited Tue October 11, 2022 2:22pm

Newlady

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April 2021

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Posted Tue October 11, 2022 3:38pmReport post

We have all this coming up soon. I feel sick now thinking about it, so God knows how you feel with a date. Come on here and have a good chat when your mind is full

Upset mum

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June 2020

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Posted Tue October 11, 2022 4:45pmReport post

Xxx

These are all normal feelings and you will get through it, you have come this far on this journey, it needs to happen because at least you will know what the outcome will be,

Strength and hugs xx

Upset mum

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June 2020

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Posted Tue October 11, 2022 4:45pmReport post

Xxx

These are all normal feelings and you will get through it, you have come this far on this journey, it needs to happen because at least you will know what the outcome will be,

Strength and hugs xx

Xxx

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March 2022

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Posted Tue October 11, 2022 5:16pmReport post

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Bitterbean

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December 2021

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Posted Tue October 11, 2022 8:32pmReport post

Xxx

Just post away, sometimes it good just to get things off your chest! I find posting here helps me sort out my thoughts, my head is in such a scramble sometimes and then I find myself typing something on here and find myself thinking "oh, so that's how I feel!"

Hope court isn't traumatic and your person gets a fair outcome.

SAL

Member since
December 2021

895 posts

Posted Tue October 11, 2022 9:36pmReport post

One of the hardest things about this journey is all the unknowns. All the thinking about the what if, what might be and constantly trying to understand what will and won't be too much to cope /live with. You aren't alone in whirling thoughts going round your head. You will find a way through it though, it might not be easy or straight forward, but you will find a way.

Erin0110

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October 2022

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Posted Wed October 12, 2022 6:27amReport post

I send you all support that I have!

Xxx

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March 2022

439 posts

Posted Wed October 12, 2022 8:50amReport post

Thank you both . Which we could switch our brains off for a rest somtimes xx