Unsupervised acces? How to?
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Hi all,
So the knock came 16 months ago. We have been thru all the mess already, he was RUI, then supervised access with the kids with MIL staying over for childcare as I was wary of the psicological impact on the kids to suddenly being cared by someone outside the family (he was a stay at home dad before).
Fast forward now, he has been given comunity sentence with 80 hours hard labour, 40 hours therapy, 5 years in SOR and 2 years in SHPO with no restrictions for kids access unless sai kids stay in the house overnight, which will have to comunicate to the parents. Everything else is internet based.
SS closed the case sometime ago, but that was before he got his sentence.
I want him to come back to the house, not because I think we have a future, but because this arrangement with MIL is tedious to say the least, and was supposed to be temporary but we both have had enough.
I have set up a caravan in the back of my garden where he can stay for now until he finds his feet and is able to get a flat or something. The probation officer that he will be assigned in this county has come to see it. As usual, she then passed the buck that it'll depend on SS.
Is this right? And if so, what else can I do to expedite this?
Thanks for reading, much appreciated!
So the knock came 16 months ago. We have been thru all the mess already, he was RUI, then supervised access with the kids with MIL staying over for childcare as I was wary of the psicological impact on the kids to suddenly being cared by someone outside the family (he was a stay at home dad before).
Fast forward now, he has been given comunity sentence with 80 hours hard labour, 40 hours therapy, 5 years in SOR and 2 years in SHPO with no restrictions for kids access unless sai kids stay in the house overnight, which will have to comunicate to the parents. Everything else is internet based.
SS closed the case sometime ago, but that was before he got his sentence.
I want him to come back to the house, not because I think we have a future, but because this arrangement with MIL is tedious to say the least, and was supposed to be temporary but we both have had enough.
I have set up a caravan in the back of my garden where he can stay for now until he finds his feet and is able to get a flat or something. The probation officer that he will be assigned in this county has come to see it. As usual, she then passed the buck that it'll depend on SS.
Is this right? And if so, what else can I do to expedite this?
Thanks for reading, much appreciated!
How did SS end involvement with you? We were CIN and at the end of assessment it said it was up to me in the future if he was to move back in with me and kids, they are would not get involved again unless a referral came in from somewhere eg PO/mosovo x
Hi Jay,
Same, CIN but they never specified if it was up to me, just that as long as he wasn't in the house, they could close the case.
Same, CIN but they never specified if it was up to me, just that as long as he wasn't in the house, they could close the case.