Is it worth it
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I have woken up today with a knot of anxiety in the pit of my stomach. I had made a formal complaint to SS and have had 2 replies. I'd made 12 points on my complaint so it was split between 2 managers depending on the area that they manage. On Friday I had my first reply, all points in that section were either upheld or partially upheld. The second response yesterday was laughable, I'm not sure the person had even read the complaint.
It was also clear that part of the reason we remain on a CPP is because I won't tell them that I will leave my OH. I also haven't said that I will stay with him. I have made it
I have tried my best to educate myself and do not believe my OH has a sexual attraction to children. He working really hard on himself and my children adore him.
All that said, the trauma that I am experiencing through having to deal with SS is emense. I feel like if I just stop all contact with him and do what SS want, my life would be so much easier.
It was also clear that part of the reason we remain on a CPP is because I won't tell them that I will leave my OH. I also haven't said that I will stay with him. I have made it
I have tried my best to educate myself and do not believe my OH has a sexual attraction to children. He working really hard on himself and my children adore him.
All that said, the trauma that I am experiencing through having to deal with SS is emense. I feel like if I just stop all contact with him and do what SS want, my life would be so much easier.
We're the same. Our social worker is useless to the point I feel me and my children we are really young have had no support at all and if anything been intimidated by her and she also has no idea about any of it. I was going to complain but feel like it will back fire against us. My oh is at magistrates next week she hasn't even rung to say she knows about it so I haven't bothered telling her.
I hope you get it sorted I know I haven't been much help but just wanted you to know your not alone x
I hope you get it sorted I know I haven't been much help but just wanted you to know your not alone x
The one thing I will say is actually complaining and getting those complaints upheld was very empowering.
They have admitted to a data breach which I will seek legal advise over.
They have admitted to a data breach which I will seek legal advise over.