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Oh Parker, I'm so sorry you're having a tough time. What bail conditions does he have that this would impact on? Forgive my ignorance, my person was in remand before sentencing. I hope that this doesn't have the consequences you fear. Sending love xxx

O nooo :( so sorry your both going through this I can't offer much help other that love and support . Surley there can't be anything about the car can that could course him go to prison . Arnt they normally no contact with under 18 ect . ( Sorry if I don't understand) just our was no staying overnight with anyone under 18 ect it's always the way with things when money's right everything breaks or somthing happens . You can get through this things will look better . We had no money suicidal partner months in bed ect now he's fighting or and had said enough is enough hopefully your partner can to as I know how hard it is to see them like this xxx

Is there any family members you can talk to ? If not I'm hear for youaybe not much help but somone to listen xx

Oh Parker, what a nightmare! Could you maybe contact his PO or MOSOVO officer and ask exactly why he's been sent to prison, how long and what the terms were?
im guessing he hasn't been charged with anything as yet? You need to find out exactly what terms of bail were.
stay strong you will see light at the end of the tunnel xx

My goodness I really feel for you. I was like that last year, one thing after another my head was spinning. Please ring your gp or helpline. Take one thing at a time. Sounds horrendous for you sweetheart. Look after yourself. I really hope something so stuoud woukdnt get him remanded. Don't trust the cops contact his solicitor xx

Tell your hubby to reach out, call stop it helpline, or go to the nearest hospital A&E and he can pronounce himself suicidal, hopefully hell get some help. My person Almost died on his second attempt but the help he got from gp etc really helped him move forward. He's like a new person.

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Parkerpoo1

I am so sorry , just awful for you both x

Please tell your husband to reach out to his doctor/ do.you have a local crisis team of so call.them they can be a really good support for him and obviously you xx

Parkerpool

I do feel for you. That seems awful bad luck, the chances of him being stopped anyway must have been pretty small

In terms of bail conditions, one of my partners conditions was that he should not commit any more offences. I don't know if this is a standard condition. But I know since his arrest my partner has been very careful when driving not to exceed speed limits etc as he believes this would lead to re-arrest.

I would take it as a good sign that the police haven't done anything more so far than issue him with a fixed penalty (which is annoying enough, but would have happened anyway, regardless of his bail conditions). Hopefully that will be all it is, and they'll drop the matter. I think if nothing more happens after a week or so, you can start breathing again.

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