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Bitterbean

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Posted Sun November 6, 2022 8:44pmReport post

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BaffledB

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Posted Sun November 6, 2022 10:13pmReport post

Bitterbean,

That is reassuring and I'm glad it went well for you! I agree, it shouldn't make any difference whether you remain with your partner or not. I'm currently studying for a career change but I know full well if my partner gets convicted then I probably won't be able to pursue it if I stay with him so there's a lot to think about. It's more to do with reputation and stigma than actual risks and that's unfair because it wouldn't be the case if it was perhaps someone with a very violent criminal history, nobody would know or bat an eyelid. Xx

Smile through tears

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Bitterbean

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Posted Mon November 7, 2022 7:41pmReport post

Thank you Baffled and Smile

The irony of course is that none of us partners or family members should be having to suffer any detriment like this as a result of our partner's/another family member's actions. It should be a given that we have the same rights and are treated with the same dignity and respect, as any other non offending person.

Smile through tears

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Posted Mon November 7, 2022 9:31pmReport post

Your so right Bitterbean - it's all so unfair, how us the innocent are tarnished.

Loulou22

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Posted Tue November 8, 2022 2:17amReport post

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