Magistrates on Thursday
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So hubby is at magistrates on Thursday 60 miles away! I can't be there as need the children collecting from school. I'm dreading it, oic reckons it should all be done there as theyre low levels. Part of me is ready for this but part of me isn't (does that make sense?) it would be grand to get life back on track but if it goes the other way I'm not ready to lose my husband. I haven't sorted out anything. How will I cope? He's always been my rock, he's my best friend. I'm so broken right now but have to force a smile for my girls. Just needed to get it off my chest as I'm trying to be strong for everyone else involved
Lots of deep breaths. It'll soon be over. You can't control what happens, only how you react. Try to stay strong for your girls. I know it's easier said than done, we have sentencing soon at Crown, and I can feel myself spiralling. I'll be thinking of you. Fingers crossed it all goes well.
My person also has Magistrates this week so I feel exactly the same way as you.
Fingers crossed for a good outcome for both of our people.
Fingers crossed for a good outcome for both of our people.
Thanks Loulou74, that's all I keep telling myself I need to be strong for them but it's so hard at times, when 8 talk to people I know they just say just think positive and don't think about the worse, trouble is I'm not prepared for the worse to happen and I think I'll just crack if it does. Hope crown court goes well for you. Big hugs
thank you Seaside, I hope you have a good outcome too. I keep thinking maybe this will be the end of it but also feel I need to be prepared if it goes the other way. I already lost my home of 10 years I just don't want to lose my partner/ best friend of 16 years as well. Big hugs
thank you Seaside, I hope you have a good outcome too. I keep thinking maybe this will be the end of it but also feel I need to be prepared if it goes the other way. I already lost my home of 10 years I just don't want to lose my partner/ best friend of 16 years as well. Big hugs
Good luck for tomorrow mum and seaside x
Thank you Jayjay.
Spoke to the Solicitor yesterday and they are going to push for one charge to be dropped as not enough evidence for this so fingers crossed.
Good luck Mum I will be thinking of you and sending hugs and strength.
Spoke to the Solicitor yesterday and they are going to push for one charge to be dropped as not enough evidence for this so fingers crossed.
Good luck Mum I will be thinking of you and sending hugs and strength.
Thank you seaside, hope everything goes well for you.
Our solicitor has just dropped out case and told my husband to go with on duty solicitor rather than paying him £500+. Not got much hope now to be honest but it would be great to have this finished and still have my hubby home x
Our solicitor has just dropped out case and told my husband to go with on duty solicitor rather than paying him £500+. Not got much hope now to be honest but it would be great to have this finished and still have my hubby home x
Good luck x
Best of luck stay strong you can do this x
Good luck mumof3girls and seaside
Thank you x
Mum & Seaside
Thoughts and strength with you all tomorrow
Hugs sent xx
Thoughts and strength with you all tomorrow
Hugs sent xx
Thank you
Good luck guys x will be keeping everything crossed for you all
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Thinking of you today
Thinking of you both today xx
I hope today goes well ladies x
Thinking of you both today xxx
Thank you all. I'm very nervous today, barely slept. X
Good luck for today ????
We're still awaiting response from CPS in my OH case
We're still awaiting response from CPS in my OH case
Thinking of you today and hoping for a good outcome.
Sending you lots of support.
Sending you lots of support.
Hope you had a good outcome today xx
Thank you everyone. So I think it went well. He's signing sor tomorrow, and back in magistrates on 15/12. Take that as meaning it's staying in magistrates. He's a bit emotional as oic lies in his statement (surprise, surprise) and said he admitted to accessing the app for indecent images which was definitely not true, also accused him of having some app installed to wipe memory of downloads (again not true) hopefully our solicitor (new one not the one who let us down day before) can get them withdrawn
Hi Mum
So glad it went as well as it could and it will be kept in the magistrates for sentencing x
Hope you are ok
As for the police I have no words they should not be allowed to say things that are not correct but they get away with it
Hopefully the solicitor can get them removed from his charges
Hugs sent to you all xx
So glad it went as well as it could and it will be kept in the magistrates for sentencing x
Hope you are ok
As for the police I have no words they should not be allowed to say things that are not correct but they get away with it
Hopefully the solicitor can get them removed from his charges
Hugs sent to you all xx
Hi Mum
So glad it went as well as it could and it will be kept in the magistrates for sentencing x
Hope you are ok
As for the police I have no words they should not be allowed to say things that are not correct but they get away with it
Hopefully the solicitor can get them removed from his charges
Hugs sent to you all xx
So glad it went as well as it could and it will be kept in the magistrates for sentencing x
Hope you are ok
As for the police I have no words they should not be allowed to say things that are not correct but they get away with it
Hopefully the solicitor can get them removed from his charges
Hugs sent to you all xx
Hi Mum
Glad it went as well as it could do for you today.
I have no words to express my utter contempt for the Police and the appalling lies they tell-hopefully your new solicitor will be able to challenge this and get the charges dropped.
My person's plea hearing went ok via zoom and he wasn't asked to state a plea because the solicitor is fighting to get one charge dropped so he has unconditional bail doesn't have to sign the register yet and a provisional date for Crown in December.
Sending lots of hugs and strength
Glad it went as well as it could do for you today.
I have no words to express my utter contempt for the Police and the appalling lies they tell-hopefully your new solicitor will be able to challenge this and get the charges dropped.
My person's plea hearing went ok via zoom and he wasn't asked to state a plea because the solicitor is fighting to get one charge dropped so he has unconditional bail doesn't have to sign the register yet and a provisional date for Crown in December.
Sending lots of hugs and strength
Evening Seaside
Hope.you are bearing up ok after today
I totally agree on the police part total sh.t heads the way they can.lie so much xx
Hope.you are bearing up ok after today
I totally agree on the police part total sh.t heads the way they can.lie so much xx
never trusted the police and even less so now.
Thanks Upset we are doing ok just feeling wrung out and exhausted and now waiting for the next stage in this hideous journey.
The Police are truly horrible and the way I was treated by them has resulted in me having PTSD which I think is very common in these situations-the problem is that making a formal complaint against them might prejudice the case and make things worse for my person.
It is disgusting that they are able to get away with lying and bullying tactics and not held accountable.
The Police are truly horrible and the way I was treated by them has resulted in me having PTSD which I think is very common in these situations-the problem is that making a formal complaint against them might prejudice the case and make things worse for my person.
It is disgusting that they are able to get away with lying and bullying tactics and not held accountable.
Hi seaside, I hope you manage to get sorted. The waiting is the worst. I also am putting in a complaint regarding the knock and how the police acted around my children. One decided to tell my then 5 year old that her daddy was going to prison. My 15 year old now has PTSD and has panic attacks when she sees police. I will be putting this in once my husband's case is done so it doesn't effect my husband's case. One female officer tried to force me out of bed naked in front of her and kept declaring she had a warrant. Took a little fighting but I didn't get out of bed until she shit the door. These police seem to let the power go to their heads.
Hi Mumof3girls
Hope you're ok after today -the waiting is awful isn't it ?
That is absolutely disgusting to treat you and your children that way and makes me so angry.
When we had the knock at 6am there were 8 police.
They brought in a dog despite me pleading with them not to as I have a real phobia about dogs and threatened to arrest me if I didn't comply.
I was told that I was a stupid hysterical woman and that I should shut up and calm down when I was crying.
Hope you're ok after today -the waiting is awful isn't it ?
That is absolutely disgusting to treat you and your children that way and makes me so angry.
When we had the knock at 6am there were 8 police.
They brought in a dog despite me pleading with them not to as I have a real phobia about dogs and threatened to arrest me if I didn't comply.
I was told that I was a stupid hysterical woman and that I should shut up and calm down when I was crying.
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