Social worker pressure
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So she rang me today asking if I had decided what I will do regarding letting my OH come home. I said well going by what he's said and if nothing is found and even if there has and it was from the incident two years ago when he was sent stuff that he deleted that's not going to want me to keep him out.
She then asked about what his charges are I said the devices are still being checked we won't have any charges yet if we get any. Like I swear she just wants to push me to telling her to do one.
She then asked about what his charges are I said the devices are still being checked we won't have any charges yet if we get any. Like I swear she just wants to push me to telling her to do one.
Hi Em,
you've used your partners name...I think for safety reasons you should edit your post so that isn't in there. Anyone can read the forum xx
Yes in my experience ss will do anything to pressure you to leave your oh, and constantly ask what you think. Make sure you always reiterate you understand the risk and can protect your children while telling them to go screw themselves and your oh will come home xx
you've used your partners name...I think for safety reasons you should edit your post so that isn't in there. Anyone can read the forum xx
Yes in my experience ss will do anything to pressure you to leave your oh, and constantly ask what you think. Make sure you always reiterate you understand the risk and can protect your children while telling them to go screw themselves and your oh will come home xx
Hi...
Can I just emphasize that ANY Social Worker contact or visits is purely VOLUNTARY.
Yes they can threaten you with Sec 47, CiN and Child Protection remits but all of these are voluntary and cannot be imposed.
Finally they could begin court proceedings against you however if they do you are AUTOMATICALY given access (Free) to an Advocate/Legal representative who will be present during any meetings prior to the case being heard by a judge....
If they even get that far ...
Do not let fear get in the way of what you think is best for your life and family.
Can I just emphasize that ANY Social Worker contact or visits is purely VOLUNTARY.
Yes they can threaten you with Sec 47, CiN and Child Protection remits but all of these are voluntary and cannot be imposed.
Finally they could begin court proceedings against you however if they do you are AUTOMATICALY given access (Free) to an Advocate/Legal representative who will be present during any meetings prior to the case being heard by a judge....
If they even get that far ...
Do not let fear get in the way of what you think is best for your life and family.
Hi Em,
I have had the same with my SW. Happy I can safeguard the children but not happy for him to come home, no matter what the outcome is with the police.
At times they've made me feel like I have no choice but to leave him but thankfully people on here and have advsjed me they can't do that. It's a scare tactic and basically makes their job easier for us to just walk away. Until you know all the facts and maybe reasons why (not excusing what any of our OH have done) you don't need to make any decisions at all, it's not always black and white. Xxx
I have had the same with my SW. Happy I can safeguard the children but not happy for him to come home, no matter what the outcome is with the police.
At times they've made me feel like I have no choice but to leave him but thankfully people on here and have advsjed me they can't do that. It's a scare tactic and basically makes their job easier for us to just walk away. Until you know all the facts and maybe reasons why (not excusing what any of our OH have done) you don't need to make any decisions at all, it's not always black and white. Xxx
Good shout @GZ
Thank you everyone I will bear all this in mind for tomorrow. I'll keep you all in mind to keep me strong.
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Thank you everyone I will bear all this in mind for tomorrow. I'll keep you all in mind to keep me strong.
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