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Hi there, I'm so so sorry this has happened to you and you're in this club no one wants to be in. You've got the added pressure of everyone knowing and stories getting muddled up. Your doing great being strong for your children. Try to take time out for yourself so you can think straight, everyone telling you what to do, what to believe and what they believe I'm sure your head is ready to explode. Has your husband admitted what he's did to you? It's really important he does you deserve the truth so you can move on and make a decision thats right for you. Have you called the help line? Or your getting Make sure you're getting support for you x

That sounds truly awful. My husband was also caught by talking to a decoy but at least it was a police decoy so we didn't have the posting online (though it may still be in the media when he is sentenced). He said similar that he knew they weren't minors and in one chat he does call them out for not being a minor.
You are definitely not alone in this. Read through the posts if you feel able, in many ways it will help, but it can also feel very overwhelming. There is no easy way out of this and sharing with someone outside of your circle will help to get perspective. Your family will rightly want to protect you. And SS will want you to leave as it'll make it easier for them. Do what you feel is right for you and your family. You may need to speak to a counsellor to be able to get things straight in your mind. They can help you pick through the conflicting emotions.

So sorry my husband was talking to 2 decoys. These vigalanty came to our door and was posted on Facebook. This has destroyed our lives.

The groups should be stopped they destroy lives. If I didn't have my boys I would be dead as I wouldn't have been able to cope with this. In my eyes these vigalanty groups have blood on there hands

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