I messed up
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I seriously messed up.
I can't even go into detail about it cos I barely remember what was said despite it being not long ago.
i got so defensive with the social worker cos I do that I get agitated and defensive and before I know it I was spouting info about how corrupt the police are and statistics about sex offenders and that.
she said she was concerned cos he's been coming to the house to see the kids but we were never told he couldn't.
I feel so alone and lost and I said I wished I was un alive.
she said he won't even let me tell you what I know from him and the police and he said he wants to check with the detective cos he doesn't remember his interview from shock.
she's making me feel like I'm losing my mind
I can't even go into detail about it cos I barely remember what was said despite it being not long ago.
i got so defensive with the social worker cos I do that I get agitated and defensive and before I know it I was spouting info about how corrupt the police are and statistics about sex offenders and that.
she said she was concerned cos he's been coming to the house to see the kids but we were never told he couldn't.
I feel so alone and lost and I said I wished I was un alive.
she said he won't even let me tell you what I know from him and the police and he said he wants to check with the detective cos he doesn't remember his interview from shock.
she's making me feel like I'm losing my mind
Please please get yourself somewhere safe or go to trusted friend. Your poor mijnd sounds like it's in such a muddle, believe me I've been there. Please call the helpline or lifeline, your go or anyone how your feeling. Please don't suffer alone there's help put there I promise I've been where you are, it does get easier xx
Hi Em,
I'm so sorry that you're feeling like this. For me it was the police that made me feel like I was losing my mind, told me just enough to make me flip my s*** and then say we can't give any information as he's an adult and has rights. Also said that he'd be feeling worse than I was, when I felt like my world was collapsing around me.
Do seek some professional help and reach out about how you're feeling. It's important to remember ourselves on this journey.
When the sw told me I was getting defensive I told her that these are my children and asked if I don't defend them who will? Do you have a safety plan in place? So no unsupervised access, you there all the time? They forget at times that they make recommendations not legal demands. It's freezing outside and we're all feeling the pinch so to expect you to do contact in the community is ridiculous. You can put in a sars request through your local authority to see what information they hold regarding you and your children. They do get things confused at times so she may have got your case confused with another. Speak to your OH about her allegations when you're calmer. Sending love and strength. You may not feel like you have but you've got this and we're all behind you xxx
I'm so sorry that you're feeling like this. For me it was the police that made me feel like I was losing my mind, told me just enough to make me flip my s*** and then say we can't give any information as he's an adult and has rights. Also said that he'd be feeling worse than I was, when I felt like my world was collapsing around me.
Do seek some professional help and reach out about how you're feeling. It's important to remember ourselves on this journey.
When the sw told me I was getting defensive I told her that these are my children and asked if I don't defend them who will? Do you have a safety plan in place? So no unsupervised access, you there all the time? They forget at times that they make recommendations not legal demands. It's freezing outside and we're all feeling the pinch so to expect you to do contact in the community is ridiculous. You can put in a sars request through your local authority to see what information they hold regarding you and your children. They do get things confused at times so she may have got your case confused with another. Speak to your OH about her allegations when you're calmer. Sending love and strength. You may not feel like you have but you've got this and we're all behind you xxx