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I just wanted to say a big thankyou to everyone that has replied to my posts the last few months. Although I haven't got my oh home at the moment due to ss still involved he was given a suspended sentence and community order. This part of our horrible journey is finally over now on to the next part that hopefully is better than the last 18 months
scaredandconfused
So pleased for the update
As hard as this journey is you have been through so much
I am pleased he received a suspended sentence
Time to adjust and rebuild a new normal way of living
I hope SS look at this in a positive way
X
So pleased for the update
As hard as this journey is you have been through so much
I am pleased he received a suspended sentence
Time to adjust and rebuild a new normal way of living
I hope SS look at this in a positive way
X
That's good to hear he got a suspended sentence. My husband has his sentencing on Friday.
Ss will take time and patience but hopefully you'll get there. I'd love to have unsupervised access for my kids eventually even though husband won't be coming home.
Ss will take time and patience but hopefully you'll get there. I'd love to have unsupervised access for my kids eventually even though husband won't be coming home.
Scaredandconfused I am so happy for you. This is what I wish for, we're not that far down the road yet. I know it's not ideal but a lot better than it could have been.
I hope SS work well with you so that you can move on as a family now.
Sending all my love xxx
I hope SS work well with you so that you can move on as a family now.
Sending all my love xxx
Scared and confused
Glad to hear this is another milestone passed for you and I hope things go smoothly and without any additional upsets and disruption for you.
Glad to hear this is another milestone passed for you and I hope things go smoothly and without any additional upsets and disruption for you.
Thankyou everyone.
SS was already Saying that once today is over she was looking at working to get him home and close the case so fingers crossed
SS was already Saying that once today is over she was looking at working to get him home and close the case so fingers crossed
scaredandconfused; really please to hear the outcome. Hopefully now you can start to rebuild you life. All the best. X
ScaredandConfused - Can I please ask what he was charged with? My partner has been charged today and I have no idea if he's likely to get a prison sentence or suspended or what.
I'm so very happy for you, what a relief!!!
I'm also glad SS is working towards bringing your OH home, that's a massive step forward.
Well done <3
I'm also glad SS is working towards bringing your OH home, that's a massive step forward.
Well done <3
WorseThanAnyNightmare, have your OH lawyer up yet? As soon as charges are there, it's imperative he gets a lawyer that can guide him in sentencing expectations.
It will still be decided in court though , but the worse is not knowing what to expect.
Big hugs x
It will still be decided in court though , but the worse is not knowing what to expect.
Big hugs x
Hey
It was making cat a 18 b 2 c 300 odd he got suspended the usual unpaid work and that 5 years sor and shpo x
It was making cat a 18 b 2 c 300 odd he got suspended the usual unpaid work and that 5 years sor and shpo x
Thankyou green. Everything seems to be moving forward although it as gone in a localish paper so at the moment I'm scared of it being published everywhere
Green, thanks for your reply to me. He's contacting a Solicitor immediately. Don't know if he will get Legal Aid or not as he did have a good job before this, but since then lost his job and we have very little savings, and he's on JSA.
Scaredandconfused - that's for the info. Did it all go through Magistrates? Did your person plead guilty at the hearing?
He had plea at magistrates his solicitor said she wanted it to go crown because sentencing at magistrates isn't any good they aren't prepared for big cases like that. Sentencing at crown. He admitted from the start then went straight with guilty
Scaredandconfused - thanks for that. It's just everything is unknown and so so scary...
Scaredandconfused,
I'm so pleased you got a decent outcome and the limbo has passed. Onwards and upwards for the both of you! Lots of love xx
I'm so pleased you got a decent outcome and the limbo has passed. Onwards and upwards for the both of you! Lots of love xx
Worse. ... No problem the saying is plan for the worst hope for the best x
BaffledB
We're just very grateful and can actually look forward to Christmas abit more now x
We're just very grateful and can actually look forward to Christmas abit more now x