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Just basilcy a rant and if anyone is in the same situation. I thought the first part of waiting for a court date was the worst but now I just feel things get worse and worse .
We have waited along time and couldn't wait to try and get things back to normal.
Is seems to me that that can never happen and the visor and social services don't help don't answer and just make things worse .
Few months after sentencing visor is saying he has breached .
And social services rang ssid that we can not stay over night for chirstmas. I messaged for her email to send a saftey plan and she never replied . When she called to say he couldn't stay over the conversation wasn't the best I said that she hasn't read my saftey plan she never replies to my calls and texts she doesn't know me or my partner so how can she say he can't stay over . The saftey plan was very strict Ince camera in the girls room . Me to still supervise every second ect .
I feel I can't carry on with this upset anymore . He can't come come or eveen stay at home. I'm depressed, defeated and there's not a person out there that eveen wants to listen to me or help . Most of my family don't know what's going on and the Lieing is just getting out of hand . Also the shpo stops us from going anywhere or doing anything as a family . He works full time and on his days off he has community pay back . It's really not a life for any of us and I don't know we're to turn xxx
We have waited along time and couldn't wait to try and get things back to normal.
Is seems to me that that can never happen and the visor and social services don't help don't answer and just make things worse .
Few months after sentencing visor is saying he has breached .
And social services rang ssid that we can not stay over night for chirstmas. I messaged for her email to send a saftey plan and she never replied . When she called to say he couldn't stay over the conversation wasn't the best I said that she hasn't read my saftey plan she never replies to my calls and texts she doesn't know me or my partner so how can she say he can't stay over . The saftey plan was very strict Ince camera in the girls room . Me to still supervise every second ect .
I feel I can't carry on with this upset anymore . He can't come come or eveen stay at home. I'm depressed, defeated and there's not a person out there that eveen wants to listen to me or help . Most of my family don't know what's going on and the Lieing is just getting out of hand . Also the shpo stops us from going anywhere or doing anything as a family . He works full time and on his days off he has community pay back . It's really not a life for any of us and I don't know we're to turn xxx
I'm sorry I don't have any advice because I'm not at this stage but I didn't want to read and leave no reply as you hadn't had one yet.
just want to send love. I'm feeling a little like this that my OH will never get to come home and I just think what does this mean for us as a family. Do I stay with him but never live together, do we split up and my brain just melts.
just want to send love. I'm feeling a little like this that my OH will never get to come home and I just think what does this mean for us as a family. Do I stay with him but never live together, do we split up and my brain just melts.
Thank you very kind. Alot of people have had there partners home. I don't know if we're just unlucky with everyone we have to deal with is an arsehole or if there is something wrong were doing . I'm an over panicker a worrier ect . But I really just can't believe how much I'm still in the dark and how noone has the decency to talk to me like a human . I hope you have a good outcome xxx
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Thank you for the reply . They havnt eveen decided if it's a breach get the woman's on holiday so don't think they know. Social worker has just called round said she's been at the school questing my daughter which she said she wudnt do I'm so mad and upset xx