High numbers of iioc
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Is there anyone here with high numbers of all catorgies A/B/C . That there partner has veiwed and they still want contact for there children ?
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Hi.
I allow my boys to see their dad, he says it's hundreds and some videos. But we will see.
I allow my boys to see their dad, he says it's hundreds and some videos. But we will see.
Sorry I ment like hundreds of iioc vidoes and images . As I normally read that people have 30 ect .
My person has hundreds and was just wondering if anyone else was in the same boat xx
My person has hundreds and was just wondering if anyone else was in the same boat xx
Thank you for your reply N
Are you waiting on device checks ? Would the amount found affect your desicsion ? Sorry if this is to intrusive don't have to answer
I was aware of the high number in my person's case from day one. Just what the social say are I'm basilcy stupid for wanting contact with the amount xx
Are you waiting on device checks ? Would the amount found affect your desicsion ? Sorry if this is to intrusive don't have to answer
I was aware of the high number in my person's case from day one. Just what the social say are I'm basilcy stupid for wanting contact with the amount xx
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Try not to focus too much on what SS say. My OH had a very low number, less than 10 and only 1 cat A. I was asked why I didn't change the locks so he couldn't get in. They also told me loads of things that my OH had done which are completely untrue.
Try not to focus too much on what SS say. My OH had a very low number, less than 10 and only 1 cat A. I was asked why I didn't change the locks so he couldn't get in. They also told me loads of things that my OH had done which are completely untrue.
O really :( how are things now any better . I feel they caught me at a rough moment and I've came across as an emotional wreck and I'm sure I said somthing like he made a mistake. Which ino it's not a mistake and it's very serious ect I will just have to ask her to start again and explain myself nothing else I can do really . My main worry is they stop contact before Christmas and they take me to court . I have read some horror storys (ino I shouldn't ) and they have taken children away because they don't seem to be seen as protective. My coping mechanism at the momen tis reading things online and vaping when I get the chance . Really I need to get my arse up and do the chores xx
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I had a good social worker. But I also made them aware that we had set him up to go to drug and alcohol meetings, he has already started his LFF course. He also has conditions with me. He. Needs to do ALL courses available and i will checl his pgone whenever i want.
Our first meeting with SS she didn't speak to the boys checked on the and said hello. They weren't interested they were playing Mario lol.
Once she spoke to them at school she rang and said in no way did she think he was a danger to them. He has been allowed to have contact since the day after his arrest as long as I am there.
From what I have been told he has cat A&C.
I feel for you having kids is a hard enough job none of us need this.
I had a good social worker. But I also made them aware that we had set him up to go to drug and alcohol meetings, he has already started his LFF course. He also has conditions with me. He. Needs to do ALL courses available and i will checl his pgone whenever i want.
Our first meeting with SS she didn't speak to the boys checked on the and said hello. They weren't interested they were playing Mario lol.
Once she spoke to them at school she rang and said in no way did she think he was a danger to them. He has been allowed to have contact since the day after his arrest as long as I am there.
From what I have been told he has cat A&C.
I feel for you having kids is a hard enough job none of us need this.
Yes we are still waiting on devices to be checked. I have no idea how long unfortunately.
I hate not knowing or at least a rough time frame. All we have is the end of bail date.
I'm sorry I can't help you further pretty new to all of this. X
I hate not knowing or at least a rough time frame. All we have is the end of bail date.
I'm sorry I can't help you further pretty new to all of this. X
SS have been the worst part of this experience. I won't let them talk to my children without me, I won't agree to a "narrative", I have written countless emails to managers and several complaints via my LA.
I now think my SW is scared if me because everytime she puts a foot wrong I complian. They are only human like us.
SS only every remove 4% of children from their homes.
I stick to the recommendations and turn up to all the meetings, but I am fighting them. I want my husband home.
I now think my SW is scared if me because everytime she puts a foot wrong I complian. They are only human like us.
SS only every remove 4% of children from their homes.
I stick to the recommendations and turn up to all the meetings, but I am fighting them. I want my husband home.
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Well done you. I wish I was that strong . I don't think I have a leg to stand on though as my person's was hundreds and in the age range 3-16 . And I have 2 girls one 8months 1 6 years old.
My social worker asked me if she could talk to my daughter in school I said no but you can in the house I don't want the school to know m next few days she spring up and said she has been to the school I was so angry and upset. How can they judge my reactions when they sit in my sofa and tell me they have just not listened to what I wished for and wonder why I'm so upset and angry xxx
My social worker asked me if she could talk to my daughter in school I said no but you can in the house I don't want the school to know m next few days she spring up and said she has been to the school I was so angry and upset. How can they judge my reactions when they sit in my sofa and tell me they have just not listened to what I wished for and wonder why I'm so upset and angry xxx
Hi xxx
Unfortunately school will be informed straight away due to it being a safeguarding issue. My boys head teacher collared me in the playground the next day.
If it makes you feel any better they just ask general questions about home what makes them sad and happy ect. I managed to tell my boys it was a lady doing uni work and she needed to do a study.
I really hope they sort things for you soon. X
Unfortunately school will be informed straight away due to it being a safeguarding issue. My boys head teacher collared me in the playground the next day.
If it makes you feel any better they just ask general questions about home what makes them sad and happy ect. I managed to tell my boys it was a lady doing uni work and she needed to do a study.
I really hope they sort things for you soon. X
I told my kids that mummy and daddy were jot getting on, daddy was going to move out and we would have a lady come to help us be a happy family again.
6 Months in and the kids can't wait to see the back of her. She literally come every 10 days, asks if they're OK and leaves. She's never here more than 5 minutes.
I also made it clear to the school that they did not have my permission for SS to talk to my children without me there.
Remember, this is voluntary. You still have parental control and YOU HAVE DONE NOTHING WRONG!
You will find the strength. Us mums can take on the world for our babies xxx
6 Months in and the kids can't wait to see the back of her. She literally come every 10 days, asks if they're OK and leaves. She's never here more than 5 minutes.
I also made it clear to the school that they did not have my permission for SS to talk to my children without me there.
Remember, this is voluntary. You still have parental control and YOU HAVE DONE NOTHING WRONG!
You will find the strength. Us mums can take on the world for our babies xxx
My daughter came home and asked why a lady pulled her out of dance class. She said she grabbed her jumper and grabbed her . ( Of course she didn't so not sure why my child was so dramatic that's a worry haha) I didn't ask her things but she wanted to tell me . She said the lady asked what she's wants for chirstmas and she said she wants daddy home . And what do you like about mummy and she said cuddles in bed. So god noes if there true or not . I was wondering weather to speak to the head teacher myself . Just to explain that I am protecting her and she's my number one priority ect . Do they do a full disclosure to the head teacher about the offence ? I don't mind the school so much but the nursery my little girls just started there and I used to semi work there and know the manger and it's basilcy family run . I would worry that things wernt as confidential as they should be :/ plus's she does alot of work in the area the manager chirstmas light switch on she's very high up in the community and not sure if she's a counsellor or somthing but she might not think to highly of the situation given we live around the corner xx
Hi, schools are always informed by the police and social services. Schools play an important part in the safeguarding of children so it is essential that they are kept informed. Schools are informed about the knock and they are given an outline of the offence and terms of bail etc. they need to know all this in case the offender turned up at school to collect their child.
I think allowing social workers to speak to your child in school shows that you are open and recognise that they are looking after the safety of your child.
I think allowing social workers to speak to your child in school shows that you are open and recognise that they are looking after the safety of your child.
I know it sounds crazy, but hundreds actually isn't a high number of iioc. There are cases in which there are thousands, hundred thousands or even a million.
So when you mentioned a high number, I thought it would be thousands.
It's also important where this happened.... I think on kik images can be downloaded in a bulk.
None of this is an excuse of course, but I think you need to have a closer look at the evidence.
Yes, you can go to prison for just 1 Cat A image, but I think it's important to look at the fine details when it comes to risk asessment.
All the best x
So when you mentioned a high number, I thought it would be thousands.
It's also important where this happened.... I think on kik images can be downloaded in a bulk.
None of this is an excuse of course, but I think you need to have a closer look at the evidence.
Yes, you can go to prison for just 1 Cat A image, but I think it's important to look at the fine details when it comes to risk asessment.
All the best x