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I hope you're ok. I know it sounds like rubbish to say but the quicker it comes the quicker it's over we were lucky that ours didn't get postponed and ended up being end of November still been hard since as it was put in one paper so I've been on high alert for a month constantly looking daily incase it's anywhere else. Fingers crossed for you x

Evening loulou74

Sending strength and hugs to you

You will get through this

The anticipation of the not knowing is the worst but at least you will know what you have to deal with

I wish you both strength on the day xx

Loulou I know exactly how you feel we have sentencing at the end of this month and I am terrified.

All indications seem to be that it will be a suspended sentence but we just can't be certain.

My person has done so much to address his behaviour, we have relocated ( planned before all of this) and he has obtained new employment-his barrister has stated that he really couldn't have done any more to make positive changes.

I'm hoping that, since he has moved, the local press where he previously lived will not have any interest in reporting the case.

Wishing you lots of love and strength and that you have a good outcome this really is a crap journey.

My person has sentencing on Thursday I'm so scared now. Psr report and everything is in it was all court ordered to hurry case up as dragging on fur 2 years now. Same as you ill be gkad its all over but same time terrified for him. Probation said low risk and therapy recommended. But god knows. I'm right here with you honey xx

Ladies

I was where you were and so were many of these lovely people on here

No matter what the outcome is you will get through it

It dosent make it any easier I know but I just wanted to send my love and pass on my strength to you

Here is whishing the best possible outcome for you all

I like you was petrified, I was in court on my own, I cried, my heart I thought was going to burst, seeing my son on his own behind a glass room knowing I could not hug him and tell him it was going to be ok is the hardest thing I have ever had to do, to listen to the prosecution make him out to be a monster was awful, but then the judge spoke and she was fair

This journey is out of our control, and it is horrendous but you will get through it

Xx

Best of luck to you both, I will be thinking of you both.

We had sentencing mid Dec so know exactly how you are feeling, wishing you the best possible outcomes xx

I pray for strength for all of you going through sentencing in the coming weeks. It will be two years next month since my person was sentenced. You will come through the other side, there are many things that we can't control on this journey but this is perhaps the most daunting of them all. The fear of repercussions, custodials and the impact on our people's mental health aswell as our own is immense. I promise that you will look back on this time with such admiration for your own strength. Sending love to you all xxx

Wishing you all lots of strength and the best possible outcomes. xx I will be thinking about you

Thanks everyone, lou lou I'll light a candle for you, what day is he up? As much as this is a horrible situation fir anyone to be in its good to k ow I'm. Not alone.

Loulou and Newlady I will be thinking of you both this week and hoping you have a good outcome xx

I'll be thinking about you xx

Thinking of you, Loulou



(and you, NewLady)



xx

Thank you x 2 days to go. He got stuff for prison bag today, got confirmation from barrister it's all going ahead feeling very anxious. Hope lou lou is OK

Just posted there. Thank you and I'm so so sorry. Be strong. You'll get over this one way or another it's gonna be OK for you. No. More limbo xx

Newlady I will be thinking of you tomorrow and keeping everything crossed for a good outcome for you.

Sending lots of love and hugs to you xx

I hope everything goes ok newlady we were both due sentencing at the same time until yours got delayed everything crossed for you xx

Loulou I hope you're ok. Ours hit media too but a week after I'd been checking daily then bam right there the feeling was worse than sitting in court. Ours as been 4 weeks from media now and nothing since but I'm still constantly checking incase there's more. Hopefully it isn't shared anywhere else xx

Thank you ladies I'm scrubbing my house here I can't t sit