Family and Friends Forum

Hi. It must be so hard waiting endlessly for things to change. It's shocking that the system lets this go on for so long. In most cases the alleged perpetrators have loved ones, a family who suffer through all of this ordeal. I believe it's worse for us than the perpetrators because in many (if not all) case they are aware of what they are doing or getting themselves involved in whereas we are completely in the dark, plodding along in our little worlds never thinking anything like this would touch my life. It has and it's destroyed everything. I believe we suffer more because we are totally innocent in all of this. I'm sure someone will disagree but it's how I feel when I look at all the people hurt by one persons actions/decisions/greed. It's heartbreaking watching your innocent loved ones (children in my case) broken by what they've discovered about someone they trusted, loved and looked up to.
I hope you find the strength to see this through. The fact that we are here on this site says a lot. We are all trying to find a solution; Some peace.


Sending hugs. X

Polish Bird all you can do now is look after yourself and your little one. It's hard to do I know but it's a long waiting game which we have no control over but it's all any of us can do.
It's a very cruel situation and so unfair.
We are all here for you. Sending you hugs and strength x