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Sarahe

Member since
November 2022

9 posts

Posted Mon January 16, 2023 9:39amReport post

I thought I was ok but I'm not ....the knock was November 2022.....he's not at our home anymore , staying between friends and his family ...I have son & grandchildren staying with me....he regularly texts me , suicidal, feeling alone & fearful....I dint know what to say or feel anymore ....having difficulty finding anywhere permanent to live for him ....council will only support him if he's legally unable to return home, but the police and ss have only strongly advised he doesn't....si where does that leave us ????

Cherry

Member since
January 2023

106 posts

Posted Mon January 16, 2023 11:08amReport post

I'm feeling the same it's only been 5 weeks I have a disabled daughter 14yrs (not his) but she's known him as dad since age 6 was told to end the relationship without speaking to him we've agreed to stay separated for the time being for my daughters safety as it's still under investigation, I've read his police stament I do believe he's being fully honest but don't want to make rash decisions. I'm open to getting back together in the future if he puts the work in and is wanting to change and depending on the outcome if he ends up going to prison or not we've been told probably a suspended sentence but you just never know, we are looking into supervised contact but the whole if this ordeal has been extremely traumatizing, I feel for everyone on here it's the worst way to live because of the choices our person's make.x